Ericas Bloggity Blog

{FOOD!}

2012-02-07T09:03:00.000-08:00

Food trucks remind me of Tahiti. Down on the ocean front where the cruise liners dock there are always truck filled with amazing food. It's one of my favorite places to eat every time we visit.

Saturday we headed to Palm Springs with some friends for the Food Truck Festival. Bret had been looking forward to this day for weeks and planned on eating until he could eat no more...which is exactly what he did.

We love watching the show The Great Food Truck Race on the Food Network channel. The food always looks amazing, so when we found out about 7 of the trucks from that show were going to be there we knew we had to be there too.The trucks at the festival didn't disappoint and many of the trucks that were there had been ones that we were cheering for while watching the show.

I know this will be an overload of food pictures, but I just had to document the delicious food we ate!

First up was Crepes Bonaparte. One of the three that were on my list of must try's.What we ordered: Strawberry Nutella dessert crepe with Chantilly creme. The crepe was the perfect thinness, the strawberries just borderline tart and what isn't to like about Nutella?Next, Grill 'Em All...the Winner of The Great Food Truck Race. This was the one Bret had at the top of his list. What we ordered: The Bleu Cheer Burger. A HUGE all beef patty, cranberry gastrique, massive amounts of tangy blue cheese and potato chips (muncho's).There was also the Behemoth. Two grilled cheese sandwiches used as bun, beer soaked onion rings, bacon, cheddar cheese and BBQ sauce.We then headed on over to another truck that we cheered for on the show, Nom Nom.What we ordered: A Banh Mi sandwich. A fresh baguette with perfect crispy crust, freshly chopped cilantro, sweet tangy daikon radishes and carrots, grilled pork with honey glaze, thinly sliced fresh cucumbers and spicy jalapenos for an extra kick.

It was everything we imagined it would be and MORE!The kids wanted something sweet so we headed over to a dessert truck.What we ordered: Homemade whoopie pies and CHOCOLATE COVERED BACON.

The Whoopie pies were okay...I actually thought mine taste better. The chocolate covered bacon was a hit though!By this time we were feeling pretty full. Our friends told me I just HAD to taste the fries from Fry Smith's food truck. They had noshed on them while waiting to meet up with us.

Fries...yes please!What we ordered: Rajas Fries - Fire-roasted poblano chiles, caramelized onions and shawarma-marinated steak with Jack cheese and lime.

This was my personal favorite for the day. My mouth waters when I think about it! Good thing it's local and I can feed my cravings pretty easily.We all were feeling like we had reached our capacity and started to head towards the exit. The kids wanted to make one more stop for some cupcakes and sushi.

The cupcakes were from a truck that had won on Cupcake Wars. The girls wanted their cookies 'n creme cupcake. Though I wanted to give it a taste I just couldn't bring myself to eating one more thing.Bret ate a cupcake AND some sushi to end the day.We all left happy with our bellies full of delicious food.I can't wait to see when another festival will be happening.

Anyone care to join us next time?

p.s.The people watching was at an all time high at the festival. Large ladies covered in gold sequined ponchos, men with rat tails, Asians with knee high pantyhose and daisy dukes, hipsters and a lot of plastic surgery could be spotted.

I did in fact take pictures of many, but this one was my favorite. Check out the 'staches!*For those wondering, I did allow myself to take a day hiatus from the no sugar/no carbs I'm doing until my birthday. It was beyond worth it!!

{No. 166}

2012-02-06T08:55:00.000-08:00

A few more things have been added on to my birthday wishlist:

1.I love this neckline and the flattering lines. I'm also really loving coral and navy lately.

2.I want to wear red lipstick more. I had to pull out my red lipstick for a little photo sesh with the girls and realized how much I love it. What's your favorite brand and color?

3.I pinned these shoes last week and just can't stop thinking about them. I love them!

4.I have found myself wearing more gold these days. I never thought I would see the day when I had more gold than silver in my jewelry collection. This little bracelet would match a lot of outfits and accessories I already have.

5.Loving the bright/neon colors I'm seeing everywhere. This dress does print and bright colors tastefully well.

6.I need a new wallet. My best friend bought me one for my birthday last year in New York and sadly it's been gnawed on and picked at by Jonas while I wait in the check out line. It's definitely seen better days. This wallet would be a wonderful replacement.

7.You can't go wrong with a polka dot button up shirt. It's a classic design with a hint of trend.

*All items listed today can be found on my Pinterest account* I also linked them in the post today since Pinterest seems to be down this morning.

Happy Monday!

{Sunday Photographs - 47}

2012-02-05T16:09:00.001-08:00

Today we watched a very important sports game. One that we've been looking forward to for a while.

You know the one I'm talking about...The Manchester United vs. Chelsea game. What? Is there another sports game going on today?

Okay, Okay, we are watching the Super Bowl as well, but it was second in the rankings of games we wanted to watch.

Sitting here watching the game with Bret while the girls work on their fashion designs and Jonas sleeps I am content.

We used to throw some pretty large Super Bowl parties but the past few years we've decided to just watch as our little family and I've really enjoyed it. We can actually watch/hear the game and commercials and still eat amazingly delicious food.

It's the way to go...I promise!

I straightened my hair today, first time since September. I knew it had been a long time when the girls kept requesting to pet my hair and touching it. Even Jonas had to grab on to it and looked at me as if trying to process who I was. When it takes about an hour to straighten your hair you' go almost half a year without straightening it too!

Now if you will excuse me, I have to get off the computer so the girls can play with my hair.

{We got spirit!}

2012-02-03T08:50:00.000-08:00

They love school spirit days and so I indulge them.

Do I think when they have a week of crazy hair/sock/sunglasses etc. day(s)for Red Ribbon Week (Say no to drugs!) they will 100% for sure say no to drugs because of their participation? No. Is that why I help them with these spirit days? No.

I help them (begrudgingly) because I want them to feel a part of something positive. To participate and show pride in the school they attend. To have memories of wearing silly things to school and seeing their friends and teachers do it as well.

Despite my complaints about the pointlessness of school spirit days I have come to realize by watching my kids how important they think it is and how happy it makes them.

Everyone needs a little smile and joy in their lives and if that means sending my kids to school with crazy hair and socks then I'm down.

The Grover's have spirit YES WE DO...the Grover's have spirit...how 'bout you??!

p.s.Notice Jonas in his pj's? He was crying from 1-3 non stop, with an ear ache last night. It was a long night (I chose the wrong night to stay up until 12:30 reading). As I looked at this picture I found his monster pajamas fitting.

Love my little monster!

3 cheers for antibiotics!

{Bits}

2012-02-02T09:18:00.000-08:00

1.Mailee has a boyfriend. She insists she keeps telling him that they can just be friends and that she's too young but he continues with "the eyes". This video was recorded at the end of December when he first confessed his love. Apparently the love notes and expressions of love have become a daily thing.

My voice sounds like a man because I had a cold at the time. When I don't have a cold it sounds more like a prepubescent male.

02.Not a fan of the timeline on Facebook. Maybe I'll start to like it soon but I'm just so confused as to how it works. I'm not interested in knowing what I wrote in 2008. Why?!

03.Balloons give me at least an hour of free time. I aways have a garbage bag of balloons in the closet. Just knowing it can buy me some time helps me mentally.

04.Adam Levine

05.Shall I even start to talk about Courtney on the Bachelor? "Winning...".

06.February is here and that means BIRTHDAY month!! I think this birthday will be more difficult than last. I turned 30 (dirty 30 WHOOP!) last year but knowing that I'm turning 31 just really hits hard. It's officially official that I'm in my 30's and not just barely. UGh.

07.Hello tax return...goodbye tax return.

08.Watching Ella attempt to break dance makes me uncomfortable. The jerking and the facial expressions are just too much.

She gets her moves from her dad for sure!

09..When Jonas doesn't feel good due to teething or "other" even his mohawk is deflated.

10.Why can't Peter Pan's shadow come and take Punxsutawney Phil's shadow away? That would solve this whole 6 more weeks of Winter. Wait...I live in Southern California...why do I care?!

{Saturday outing}

2012-02-01T08:59:00.000-08:00

"There's always money in the banana stand!" ~ Arrested Development.

We kept quoting lines from AD after that.

Of course the kids preferred the candy shop filled with all sorts of sweets over the frozen bananas.

Soaking up some sun and relaxing. Jonas preferred to lounge in the stroller. After a morning of swimming with Uncle Adam and a belly full of In & Out he was tired.

We all got some sun...and have tan lines to prove it. It was a very warm 82 degrees on Saturday. A very nice perk of living in Southern California.

Walking around with my favorite people.

So many fun little beach shops. We had to stop and get some more turtles made from shells at the shell shop. It's become a tradition.

Love our Saturday outings.

Looking forward to heading to the Food Truck Festival in Palm Springs this weekend. You can bet we'll be trying food from many of the food trucks that were on The Great Food Truck Race on Food Network, as well as many of the other trucks there.

What could be better than food, friends and sun? Here's to another Saturday outing!

*photos taken with Canon A-1 35mm*

{No. 165}

2012-01-30T09:00:00.001-08:00

1.Love the color of this shirt. It's one of my favorite colors. The lace detailing makes this more than just a tee.

2.I love the look of these straight leg khakis. These are questionable for me personally until I can try them on due to my muscular calves. Not so sure they would look as good on me...but we'll give them a try.

3.I love Miz Mooz shoes. These leather flats are beautiful in design, simplicity and color.

4.Much of today's list can be found on my birthday wishlist on Pinterest. These earrings are no exception. The colors are so beautiful and the length would be flattering for any face shape.

5.Oh how I would love this necklace. The large white turquoise stone and the chain...oh my! I know I love something when I can see it with a lot of outfits I already have. What wouldn't this necklace match?!

6.I'm torn between this beautiful watch or the rose gold watch I've been pining for for the past few months. I love the design and the color of this watch but not quite sure if it's as classic as the rose gold watch that I could wear for years to come. Still...it's a beaut!

7.You know me and my love for a good wedge. This stacked wedge is beautiful!

8.Love this dress. Comfy and practical it could be used as a beach cover up or just as an every day dress.

*All items listed today can be found on my Pinterest Boards*

{Sunday Photographs - 46}

2012-01-29T17:13:00.000-08:00

The pictures show a typical Sunday morning.

Trains out (but that's typical every morning), girls ready for church, while I hold off until the last minute before we have to leave for church to put Jonas in his church clothes, usually a failed attempt at keeping his church clothes somewhat clean and not disheveled looking.

Bret was gone at church meetings. I kept busy getting the kids their lunch, preparing the church bag, getting talks ready, making dessert and prepping food for dinner with friends and finally getting myself ready.

The sink is full of dishes from the dinner prep. Cake pan soaking after I removed the white chocolate chip brownies I made, random dishes from breakfast mingled with dishes used for the dinner-making (made these, our favorite).

Then it was off to church.

Our time this year for church is NOT my favorite. 12:20-3:20, primary starting first. It makes for a really long 3 hours for the kids and adults.

Bret keeps a running countdown every Sunday and tells me how many more Sunday's we have until our schedule changes (45 more to go) and I always request not to remind me until we get down to under 20.

As I type this we are waiting for our friends to come over for dinner. Bret and Ella are dancing along to some Barbie Video (gotta love Bret) while Mailee, Jonas and I feel embarrassed for them.

It's been a long but enjoyable Sunday.

{Bits}

2012-01-26T09:32:00.000-08:00

01.Having almost 4 hours in the morning with just my little guy has been great. It's so fun to see him learn and get to know his little personality.

He takes a lot of breaks from dancing to The Wiggles and playing with his cars and trains to give me kisses and pats on my back. Sometimes he even says "I wuv youuuu".

Then of course I can do nothing but kiss is oh so kissable cheeks and tickle him so I can hear his low little chortle.

02.What is the point of kidz bop music? Why not let them hear the real artist? I don't get it.

03.After getting texts and emails from friends and even a few strangers insisting I should NOT cut my hair...ever...I have decided to keep it long. Feel free to text me with how happy you are that I listened to you.

04.Lately Jonas' nickname has gone from "Juice" to "Boogs" due to the large amount of snot that comes from his nose for the last 2 weeks. Halfway through the day my shirt looks like a snail slithered all over it and I have to go change.

05.We are having unseasonably warm weather here for the next few days (upper 70's - mid 80's). I have plans to spend more time out in the sun with my book. It makes me so very happy.

06.Remember when I wrote about Jonas saying "fork"? Well we giggle also when he tells Ruby the dog to "sit"!

07.A 16 foot great white shark was spotted in San Diego yesterday. Sharks me no likey!

08.I think Anthony the blue Wiggle is the better looking of the bunch. Captain Feathersword is a close second just because he's a pirate...Arrrgh!

I also think I've been watching way too many Wiggles for the past 7.5 years.

09. I keep a running list of things my kids say. Here's one that was said yesterday.

"Mailee wanted to put a Wii game in and play after eating lunch. This is how she asked. "Mom, can I put the Dora game in the Wii's crotch and play?".

I had her repeat just to make sure I got what she said and then had her show me what she was referring to. She pointed to the disc opening on the Wii console.

I then proceeded to give her a better way to ask...and then laughed as I texted family and friends with what she just said.

I am still wondering where she learned that word as well as what else she thinks has the same "anatomy" as the Wii.

10. Seriously considering going to mechanic school. Do you know how much money we could save if I knew how to fix our cars?

{Tool}

2012-01-25T09:06:00.001-08:00

It finally happened and I'm not in the least bit okay with it.

Remember the Topsy Taill from our late 80's childhood? Remember the flip chart of instructions and different ways to use this amazing hair tool?

This little tool is my crutch when I don't feel like doing the girls hair in any sort of style and my "go-to" hair style for the girls. Simple, cute and stays all day and all night (I don't do the ponytail style much with it, I use it to pull their bangs to the side and loop it through).

Mine broke.

I am sad.

Immediately I went onto Ebay and tried to find a replacement. Cheap imitations could be found in abundance, but I've been down that road before when I thought I had lost it while traveling. DON'T BOTHER BUYING THE CHEAP KNOCK OFF! It's a flimsy piece of plastic that doesn't do anything close to the Topsy Tail.

I found a few originals but they were completely over priced ($25 I don't think so!) so I did some more searching and found some for $5.

Done and done!!!

I highly recommend having this tool in your hairstyling repertoire should you have little girls. It looks and holds so much better than attempts with wrapping it around a comb...believe me I've tried that.

Do you remember this awesome tool? Want to get one? Go {HERE}.

{A Fortunate New Year}

2012-01-23T08:48:00.000-08:00

Did you know that I am 1/4 Chinese? Well I am and proud of it!

Today is Chinese New Year! A benefit of celebrating this holiday is knowing that should you have already failed miserably at any resolutions/goals on Jan 1st you can always start over now!

This morning we opened up some fortune cookies and I thought I'd share the fortunes we got and expand a bit as to why we hope these all truly happen.I have a few dreams that seem to play on a constant dream loop.

Here's a couple recent ones that keep coming back:

In one dream Zombies/dinosaurs/"bad guys" are slowly making their way up Oakmont lane (my house growing up/parents current residence). We are stuck in the house, watching them get closer and closer knowing that I am the only one that can protect my family. Then I go all Power Ranger on the bad guys and all is well.

Okay so maybe we're hoping this one doesn't come to fruition, or...maybe it's my destiny to be the next Power Ranger...who knows?!

The second dream has me living somewhere beautiful, sometimes it's tropical but most times it's more like Utah looking.

I own and run my own herb/floral shop and have a VW bus which I drive and deliver flowers to make people happy. I also own a bed and breakfast.

This would be one that I'd be totally down with happening in real life! How ironic is that every day for the last while I've been entering to win the HGTV Dream Home located in Midway, Utah?!!

I have only been using the power of The Secret, and occasionally The Force, to win this prize but now that my fortune cookie from the La Choy box purchased at Stater Brothers said so I just know it's going to happen.

I am stoked! Better start packing now!!WHAT??!! It's gotta be The Secret for sure right? I mean TWO fortunes that indicated our win for the HGTV Dream Home...it's meant to be. Maybe trying to brush up on my Padawan skills of utilizing The Force also played a part...who knows. All I know is that house is mine...all MINE!!

Gun Hei Fat Choy (Happy New Year) indeed!!!

p.s.Tonight we will be celebrating the Year of the Dragon with some friends.

These yummy (and healthy) egg rolls, lemon chicken, orange chicken and fried rice are on the menu.

Sparklers will bet lit, bubbly will be used to toast and more fortune cookies will be cracked open.

Here's to hoping more good fortunes come our (and your) way!!

*I was born in the year of the Rooster. Ironically it pairs well with the Snake which is Bret. To find your Chinese Zodiac sign and element click {HERE}*

{Sunday Photographs - 45}

2012-01-22T13:11:00.000-08:00

It's a slippers sort of day today.

Naps, musicals, nature shows, books and blankets.

{Bits}

2012-01-19T08:47:00.000-08:00

{phone picture taken at Beacon Beach, Encinitas, CA}
01.Last night while reviewing the day with Bret we both waxed emotional when we realized our kids are getting so big and there's nothing we can do about it. We are almost out of the "Princess phase" and more into Selena Gomez and Good Luck Charlie stuff. It really made us want to take the kids out of school and just enjoy them all day everyday with where they are at right now and do as much adventuring as possible.

Must enjoy this time with our Littles NOW!

02.Yesterday I had the urge to purge all the closets and drawers of the clothes inside and get rid of them all. Maybe it's because it was laundry day and I couldn't get into doing the massive amounts of laundry washing, clothes folding/putting away...or maybe...no...it was totally because it was laundry day.

Anyone else out there obsessive about how their clothes are folded? I think working at Gap made me this way. I must have all shirts board folded even when I know they will be messed up the next morning.

I know. I am nuts.

03.I've started playing basketball again and really enjoying it. What I am not enjoying so much is how keenly aware I am that my bladder muscle isn't what it once was...if you catch my drift.

04.I caved and read the spoilers for The Bachelor. I am not happy. I am also not happy about Ben's caveman look. His stringy long locks are killing me and his smacking noises he makes when he kisses every.single.girl is sooo McNasty!

Nothing wrong with a little mindless T.V every once in a while in my opinion. It makes me so happy to be where I am at when I see these women who are my age on that show.

I think Bret secretly likes that I watch it too because it also makes me realize how awesome he is and I tell him so.

05.2 weeks going strong with no sugar. I am not going to lie...this time around I am having a hard time not having sugar but then I think of how great I feel and I push through those sugary thoughts.

I do know that when I end this sugar (and carbs) fast on my birthday I am going to have the biggest slice of birthday cake EVER!

06.My license is about to expire so I made an appointment with the local DMV to get a California license (finally). I am not looking forward to the long line I will be in (yes even if you make an appointment there is a line) or the fact that I have to take the written test again.

I am looking forward to a new picture on my license, since the current license picture makes me cringe and laugh at the same time. It's pretty bad.

07.We think it's pretty funny when we hear Jonas ask for a fork. He's 19 months and "fork" is a difficult word to get right. The way he says it sounds like another four letter F word.

08.Every 2 weeks I get an $8 bunch of flowers from Costco. I love having a vase of fresh flowers on our table. The flowers look great for the full two weeks usually, unless Jonas gets to them...

09.I had a dream last night that involved Hans Solo, giant spiders, playing in a soccer game and cream of wheat. Interpret that now will you?

10.Cut my hair to my shoulders or keep it long? Full on bangs or no bangs?

{My Boy}

2012-01-18T08:57:00.000-08:00

Boys are busy. It's not 100% a fact but pretty close from what I've observed. Jonas is no exception. He's a tornado of toys, car noises, crayons and appetite.His obsession with Disney Cars, trains, and Star Wars is growing on a daily basis.

I know I've said this before but I am pretty sure all boys are born with the ability to make awesome noises. Ask me to make the sound a helicopter makes and it ends up sounding like a wounded hippo, but Jonas, at 11 months had it down.A coloring book and crayons are out during all waking hours. I can not tell you how many times a day he goes up and down on at the table to add a few more scribbles before running back to dump out the bin of toys I just picked up.

He's the first child of mine to ever color on anything other than paper. I thought we had nipped the whole coloring thing in the bud after a trail of crayon was discovered on our wood floors, until the other day when I was dusting and discovered one whole shelf of the entertainment center had been tagged.

Sigh.He's got such an appetite. We call him "Chubba" all the time but honestly the little guy isn't so chubby anymore. He's the same weight now that he was at 9 months (yeah...he was in fact chubby then), but he's so darn tall!

If this is any sort of foreshadowing of what his appetite will be as a teenager...better start saving!

Favorite current snacks/foods include Veggie Straws, yogurt covered rasins, mini marshmallows, bananas, strawberries, dill pickles, Colby jack cheese, fruit snacks, grapes, clementines, pretzel sticks, chicken quesadillas, PB&J (first kid to like this), pot stickers and waffles.He's been known to throw some pretty awesome tantrums on occasion but usually he's a good listener.

All he has to do is to stick out his little lip and he's got you in his sticky fingered grip. He's got that look down for sure!

Busy and crazy as this boy may be he's so much fun and loves me so much. He's way more into me then the girls were at this age and I love it.

I sure do love my boy.

{Sunday Photographs- 44}

2012-01-15T21:23:00.001-08:00

We played Mario Party 8 tonight with the kids. I won. I rubbed it in by asking the girls if they remembered who won. It's rare for me to win so I just had to.

I made Gyoza (potstickers) for dinner tonight. They were good. What wasn't good...the smell of cabbage in my house the rest of the night.

Bret takes the kids up every night...yes...every night and does bath time. Okay so not really Ella since she goes up first and showers on her own, but still, I sit and play Plants vs. Zombies or surf the net or eat chocolate bon-bons (not really ...more like chocolate chips straight from the bag, unless of course I'm on my sugar fast like I am currently then I just dream about chocolate), while he bathes and washes hair. He dresses them and then calls me up for prayer. He's a keeper.

Wanna know what else he does every night? He reads to them. Occasionally they ask for me to read to them but usually it's their time with Dad. I love to hear the voices he uses and the giggles from the kids.

Few things are sexier than a man with his kids.

{Bits}

2012-01-12T10:13:00.000-08:00

01.Looking forward to a Mommy-daughter date with Miss Mailee. I've been feeling lately that she needs some one on one attention from me.

She's got our date planned out...movie, manicures and frozen yogurt. She even has outfits picked out for the both of us.

02.Tomorrow is Friday the 13th. It's Bret's favorite day and favorite number. It just so happens he has the day off as well.

03.We found out last night that our little family is going to be "models" for a Blue Lilly photography workshop down in Encinatas tomorrow. I'm excited to see how they teach. Friday the 13th has proven to always be a lucky day indeed for us.

04.Yesterday I witnessed Jonas feeding Ruby (our dog) his hotdog and cheese cubes...from his mouth. Later on that day he was sharing his snacks with her the same way. Man's best friend...

05.Have you ever been punched/elbowed/jabbed in the face by your spouse in bed? It happens a lot here. Last night it was me who was on the receiving end. He claims he was reaching over to kiss me good night...I say he just wanted to make sure I didn't sing any show tunes to him like the night before.

Lucky for him (?) I'm a tough bird and the show tunes still happened.

06.Thanks to the Book It! program at school we have been to Pizza Hut more in the last 2 months then we have in the last year.

Whatever happened to LeVar Burton?

07.I requested Ellen show tickets again. We'll see if I get them this time. Maybe I should've waited until tomorrow, you know, it being lucky 13 and all. Crap!

08.I get to play personal shopper with a friend here on Saturday. I'm so excited to live vicariously through her while she shops up a storm. Okay, lets be honest, I'll probably buy a few things for myself, but it's always more fun to spend other people's money.

09.Introduced Pretty Fly For A White Guy by The Offspring to my kids the other night during our dance party (oh the memories!). They made me play it five times in a row! Funny that they noticed the white dude in the song wanted a number 13 tattooed on him and now they call the song Daddy's song.

They also have been heard singing around the house "Give it to me baby! Uh-huh, uh-huh!"

{Shaved}

2012-01-11T07:59:00.001-08:00

It's that time again...time for The Great Shave. I believe we've been this for at least 7 years and have documented here on the blog for the past 4 or 5 years.

There isn't anything wrong with a man with a little scruff. Bret grows out his facial hair once a year for me during the Winter months. I love it...he tolerates it.

What I look forward to most is the day he shaves. I'm sure he'll never admit it, but I think he enjoys that day as well for more than just the fact that he gets to be less itchy. You should see how he hams it up in front of the camera.

Laughing until my stomach hurts usually happens when I take his pictures and this was no exception.

Mailee happened to be home and decided she was going to be Bret's fashion consultant for his "photo shoot".

Though Bret nixed a few of her choices (princess crown, pink feather boa, etc.) he, for the most part, happily let her decide what to wear next.

Using this chart we identified his various stages. Here we go:
Before

Long sideburns + circle beard

Circle beard aka goatee

Chevron + soul patch

Painter's brush aka McNASTY!

Ten year's younger

Til we meet again in November, farewell facial hair.

Jonas had to get in on the action (the whole time I was taking pictures he was trying on various hats as well).

Previous years can be viewed by clicking here:
1,2,3,4

{No. 163}

2012-01-09T07:23:00.001-08:00

1.Scored this skirt on sale and with a discount coupon. It looks sooo much better in person and on then in this picture. I really love that it has pockets. FYI - it's a much brighter pink. Can't wait to pair it with a fitted v neck tee, a necklace that pops with color and some cute flats or even a wedge.

2.It's been a long while since I've really loved a ring...until this one. I love it.

3.One of the things I picked up a few weeks ago were these mini versions of my favorite latte bowls. I love them and they have been used and loved many times already. Every time I open my cupboard and see them they make me smile.

4.The color and lace of this skirt has put this on my birthday wish list. Asos is really making it hard not to buy stuff like crazy for me!

5.I don't care if people say birds are over and used too much now. I have always loved birds and will continue to love them. This shirt is no exception.

6.You know I love a good wedge!

7.A favorite Christmas gift I picked up at Soel Boutique is my gold initial necklace. I love sporting a simple "B" around my neck (B = Bret).

8.I've been using The Body Shop's body butter for years. During the dry Winter months it eliminates itching and cracking. In the Summer I like to use the Mango or the Coconut...the smell is subtle enough but still makes you think you're on an island somewhere.

**Links to items in today's MPM can be found on my Pinterest boards**

NOW...on to what I really wanted to share.

Have you read this article? I loved it and had to share it! I found myself proclaiming outloud "Here! HERE!" and "YES!!" multiple times while reading it.

The whole thing is well written and thought provoking. Here are a few of the lines that I liked:

"Hotness is a consumable. A consumable that consumes as it is consumed but brings no warmth."

"It is ironic that 40 years of women’s liberation has succeeded only in turning women into a commodity. Something to be used up and thrown out."

"Most men prefer pretty over hot."

Please women everywhere...let's bring pretty back and not let it die!!

{Sunday Photographs - 43}

2012-01-08T16:28:00.001-08:00

Hello sunshine in January! With church later on in the day the morning was filled with Mary Poppins, colored pencils, sunshine in the backyard and grass stains on church clothes.

I've really enjoyed looking back at the Sunday photos from last year. It's bitter sweet to see how much my littles have grown.

As I looked at the pictures taken almost every Sunday in 2011 I am so glad to have this picture timeline of them.

Here's to another year of Sunday Photographs!

{The Bees Knees}

2012-01-06T09:05:00.001-08:00

I think it's safe to say my kids think my parents are pretty cool.

They think it's amazing my dad can talk to them just like Donald Duck, can play games with them on the Wii, play Bop It like a pro and make them laugh with his fun and games.

The reminiscing going on about their adventures with my mom has been non stop since we've been home.

A little recap of the things they did with her:

-Restaurant night. Menu's were created, cooking lessons occurred and specialty pizzas fit for an upscale fancy schmancy pizza place were made and eaten.

-Making maxi skirts. Cutting and sewing were all done by the girls with some help by Meme (may-may).

-A trip to the store to find accessories (furry purses, fuzzy scarves, hats with sequins and all sorts of styles) for their newly sewn skirts made their day.

-A fashion show with poses, music and even a little brother in fairy wings

All of these things were grand and good, but the thing they miss most...the animals. Chickens, bunnies, ducks...oh my!Checking for eggs and caring for the animals was a daily task they had to be a part of. I need to remember to pack clothes that I'm ok with getting dirty next time.Jonas was enamored by the birds in the trees, my brothers dogs and picking the shells off the "magic fountain".They always have a magical time at my parents house.

Yeah...my parents are pretty much the bees knees.

{A word for 2012}

2012-01-04T08:49:00.000-08:00

As I've had time to contemplate just what exactly my one word would be for the year I reflected on last year's word and attempted to mentally check off if I had met all the goals I had linked to that one word.

I think overall my attempts at being more present with my life did happen. I did find that there were times that looking ahead or reviewing the past were necessary to be more present and helped me be who I was during the present.

Yes there were times when I really didn't feel like putting down my book and being in the present with my kids and I will say the book won more than a few times, but just being more aware of making more of an effort helped me stay in the present more so than not.

This year's word sort of builds on and intertwines with last year's word.As I wrote this word on the paper lanterns we sent off on the Eve of the new year (thanks goes to my brother Sean and his wife Cari for the newly established tradition) and watched it float into the cold night sky I felt a blast of determination billow the sails of my soul and I knew the word I had chosen was the one for me.For me this word, NURTURE, means so much and gives such a broad way of interpreting and applying to myself and my life.

Nurture. Feed. Give of.

01. Nurture my relationship with myself. Rid myself of insecurities or at least try and nurture the good qualities I possess or wish to possess. Feed the good.

02. Nurture my relationship with Bret. Being married takes work! Add to the mix my strong personality and love of a good battle of words and you're playing with fire. Fire that could provide warmth or fire that could burn...it's a fine line! This year I want to try and nurture my marriage relationship. Feed it with patience, give of myself without expecting a gold star of recognition and have fun.

03. Nurture my children. Each one is different. Each one needs something different. I will figure out what each needs and nurture. I want them to be able to come to me for anything and know I am not perfect (I'm sure they are more than aware of this already...but just in case).

What is your one little word of the year?

On the road

2012-01-02T09:11:00.000-08:00

As I write this post via my phone, we are just outside Las Vegas on our way back home after enjoying a fun filled week wtih family in Utah.

Before I can even think about the new year I must get home, take down Christmas deocrations and unpack. Once my own little space has been put in order then I can really get this new year going.

Until then...here's the first Sunday photo of 2012. Taken with my phone last night on our way from Provo to St. George.

P.s. please note that Lightning McQueen is doing a pretty fantastic "Ka-chow!" in the picture. Something I never would've noticed before having a little boy...

{Merry Christmas}

2011-12-22T08:46:00.000-08:00

We've been given so many Christmas goodies. Homemade bread, Christmas cookies and other sweet treats have been brought to our door, which is almost completely covered with Christmas cards from loved ones around the world.

Christmas music playing is almost a constant throughout the day here...even Jonas is singing the words to Handel's Hallelujah Chorus...or at least attempts to in his baby jargon sort of way.My Christmas "To Do" list is almost complete. Neighbor/friend gifts delivered, Christmas cards sent, and finally the presents have been wrapped and placed under the tree.

This is the time, when Christmas is almost upon us, and that rushing about to finish things is done, that we have even more time to reflect, talk and teach to our kids our thoughts and feelings about the Christmas season. I love this time.We are blessed and recognize that all we have in our lives is from a Heavenly Father who loves us.

As I have gone about completing the Christmas to do's I kept reflecting back on the earthly parents of our Savior Jesus Christ. How much faith they had to have. How blessed they were to be chosen to help raise Jesus.

My love for them has overwhelmed me at times and a deeper sense of respect and awe has been instilled in my heart.Merry Christmas!

{Made}

2011-12-21T08:24:00.000-08:00

The kids think of a project/gift they want to make for each other every Christmas. In the past they've made picture frames, treasure boxes, crafting kits, etc.

This year I was totally inspired by Design Mom to try making monogram mugs for each child.

Bret and I have the monogrammed mugs from Anthropologie and use them on a daily basis. The kids have more than once requested to have one as well.

I found the perfect gift for the kids to make! Yes, it would cost more then just purchasing the mugs but the reason for this little DIY project isn't to save money but to make something for someone else and enjoy the process...and enjoy we did (shout out to Adam and Jesse who also helped with this little project as well!).We found the mugs at local thrift stores and the rest of the materials at Michael's.

We also made mugs for our Welsh cousins as their Christmas gift. Here's to hoping they make it to Portland without any breakage!

We already have ideas on what to draw next year on the mugs for our other cousins and friends.
They are perfectly imperfect and we can't wait to use them!

*For detailed instructions go {HERE}*

{Cinnamon Butter}

2011-12-20T08:09:00.000-08:00

This year I decided to make Cinnamon butter for our friends and neighbors.

This butter basically tastes the same as the delicious and addicting butter that is served at Texas Roadhouse with their warm, fresh rolls.

The girls helped stamp the tags, and place the bows. We then pretended to have our own cooking show while we made the yummy butter.

Believe me lots of giggles and weird accents were happening in the kitchen yesterday!

This recipe is simple and very delicious and can be used many different ways. I tripled the recipe.

Cinnamon Butter

Ingredients
2 sticks butter softened
1 - 1 /12 cup powdered sugar
1 cup honey
2 teaspoons cinnamon

Whip butter until fluffy. Add sugar, then honey, then cinnamon. Whip all ingredients together until fluffy and well incorporated. Scrape down the sides and whip some more.I used 4 ounce jam jars which you can find by the canning items at your local grocery store.

Fill a piping bag (or ziplock bag with a corn cut off) with the butter and fill jars. I found this to be much easier than attempting to spoon the butter in the jars (which I did with the first two until I thought of the piping bag).

Yields: six 4 ounce jars

*Suggested uses:
-on warm bread/rolls
-pancakes, waffles, and french toast
-stirred into oatmeal (a favorite use for me)
-eaten with a spoon (cause it's that good)

{Sunday Photographs - 42}

2011-12-18T22:16:00.001-08:00

Late in posting this due to spending a fun evening with family.

A typical Grover Sunday dinner was enjoyed - pot roast, mashed potatoes, sweet corn, salad, peach cobbler and ice cream.

Bellies were full, homemade family gifts were made and good conversation abounded.

Today's Sunday picture was snapped as we were heading out the door to church. I knew I'd probably not have time or forget unless I did it right then...so glad I did, because they sure looked cute today.

I took a bit of a break from wrapping the kids presents to post this. Looking over to see Bret on the floor, wrapping paper and bits of ribbon and string everywhere it makes me smile.

Wrapping isn't my forte, but gift finding and adding the final touches (bows, strings and tags) are.

I better get back to wrapping and imagining what the kids faces will be on Christmas morning!

p.s. The only way to get Jonas to stand still during a picture is to give him a treat...even then, as you can see, it only buys you about ten seconds.

There's a reason why I don't have very many shots of any of my kids at this age....well, pictures that are in focus.

p.p.s. We are watching the Survivor finale as we wrap. Go OZZY!!!

{Good tidings!}

2011-12-16T09:39:00.000-08:00

What? Your parents didn't make you wear old robes, towels and cloth scraps so you could (barely) resemble shepherds?

And don't tell me that you also didn't go door to door to your neighbors and recite the Christmas story from the Bible word for word?

Everyone does this right?

Yes...we Welsh's wanted to "Bring good tidings of great joy" to those we loved...bathrobe style.

Happy Friday!

p.s.The kids get out early today and Christmas break officially begins. We'll be celebrating with some cinnamon buns, hot cocoa and Elf when they get home.

*picture:
top row -Oldest sibling Jim, Mom, Me, Dad
bottom row - brother Sean, brother Mike, brother Adam

{Bits}

2011-12-15T08:34:00.001-08:00

1.I love checking the mail this time of year. Everyday more Christmas cards from fabulous friends arrive and make us smile.

Sending ours out this week.

2.Driving around looking at Christmas lights while listening to our Christmas mix is always enjoyable.

Hearing all 3 kids belt out "Oooo-ba-baa, Oooo-ba-baa" along with Lenka rocks.

3.My girls both requested Scotch pop-up tape for Christmas! What?! They then proceeded to list the many many ways this tape would be useful in their crafting.

Makes sense to me. Hello new stocking stuffer idea!

4.I have been enjoying finding the baby Jesus from our Nativity set in random places around the house. So far I've found him on both Christmas trees, floating in the toilet with a sheep and Tinkerbell, in the silverware drawer and lodged in Jonas' diaper.

5.I have good intentions to put at least one string of lights up on our house outside. The house really does look pathetic driving up to it when it's dark...not a single light or fakey blow up thing in the front yard.

Then again, I'm pretty sure I will just stick to my justification that opening my front window blinds so the Christmas tree lights can be seen is enough lights for the outside as well.

Just call me GRINCH

6.Just realized that my kids will want to play in the snow while we are in Utah and all their snow gear is way too small now.

Solution: Tights and leggings under jeans and thick socks with their rain boots. Super Ghetto...yes...but it works so I'm down.

or

Anyone have some snow bibs and boots I can borrow for a day while in Utah?

7.A beanie clad Jonas makes his cheeks appear even chubbier which usually results in his parental units squeezing his cheeks a lot as well as strangers while in line at Disneyland.

8.Humidifiers rock. With the first cold of the Winter season hitting hard at our house starting with Jonas, this little penguin has been our best friend.

It's been the best humidifier we've owned.

9.After yesterdays excursion to the doctor's office, and having labs and an X-ray done for Mailee who was bent over in abdominal pain it was confirmed that she was "full of crap", a suspicion we as her parents often have whenever she spins her mighty stories about how she shouldn't be the one to blame when something (she did) goes wrong.

All joking aside we are very grateful that she is only suffering from a bout of severe constipation and not appendicitis, which was what they first suspected.

{Gifting}

2011-12-13T09:09:00.000-08:00

It's time to start wrapping the presents.

I always enjoy sitting with Bret on the floor, the room lit by the Christmas tree, wrapping the kids presents.

Giggling and excited proclamations usually happen while we talk about how awesome it will be to see the kids faces on Christmas morning.

Some have asked how we do gifts in our house so I thought I would share."Brown paper packages tied up with strings" is always the theme I like to keep in mind.

I prefer the plain brown paper and usually buy a large roll and use it year round. I've also found in the past few years at the Dollar Store brown paper with beautiful prints on them.

I also get all the ribbon that I use from the Dollar store and use baker's twine in different colors as well.For the gifts we do four gifts per child. Each gift goes with the four categories: want, need, wear and read.

Having these categories really helps with the Christmas shopping and not spending money on things that they don't need or will be forgotten soon after the Christmas morning excitement has ended.

When it comes to how much we spend on each child we don't really set a limit per child. I do realize as they get older the things they might want or need will cost more but even then we won't worry about "being fair" with the spending amounts. If one kid needs three new dress and the other just need socks and underwear then that is what they get for their "need".

We really try and discourage the kids from counting how many present they have and comparing the amount or size to others (easier said then done). We've started putting the presents under the tree a lot closer to Christmas so that they aren't the focus.

The kids each get one unwrapped gift from Santa and things like chapstick, nail polish, mini flashlights, glow sticks, card games, candy and an orange in their stockings.

I stock up on little trinkets, bits and baubbles from the dollar store or the dollar section at Target (that section is awesome!) throughout the year and use a lot of that stash for stockings.

One gift is usually given to the whole family (for example the last 3 years have been Disneyland passes).

The kids do a homemade gift for each other which is my favorite part. It usually takes a few months of planning and deciding and gathering but seeing the kids make something for each other and the pure joy they get from giving is the best.

One last thing I wanted to share that we started doing when Ella was old enough to make a Christmas wish list was to make a Christmas service wish list first.

We have the kids list 2 ways they can serve each family member and 2 ways they can serve others who aren't in our family. We try and focus on that list first. We review the list on Monday each week (of December) and talk about how we felt serving.Now that I've shared what our house does I'm interested in what you do. I love hearing all the different ideas and traditions and get new ideas/traditions or revamp old ones.

Do you set a limit?

Special ways you wrap your gifts (different paper for each person)?

How do you do Santa gifts? or Do you even do Santa gifts?

How do you open gifts on Christmas morning? Each person takes a turn opening one at a time or just "have at it"?

What do you eat for breakfast on Christmas morning? Cereal? Candy from the stockings? Muffins? French toast?

Do you shop year round for Christmas gifts or wait until it gets closer to the holiday season?

{No. 162}

2011-12-12T08:50:00.001-08:00

Here's a list of the number one thing on the top of each of the Grover's holiday wish list. Maybe they will end up on your list as well.

1 - Bret. He's had his current pair of sunglasses for 10+ years. They are scratched and ready to retire. I'm pretty sure Santa is bringing him these.

2 - Ella and Mailee. My girls are all about arts and crafts. One look at these fingerprint art kits and they shot straight to the top of their list.

I could see many many hours spent enjoying these super cute kits.

3 - Erica. Apparently I'm difficult to shop for - so says my best friend and husband. I really don't think so.

I did finally come up with a few things for my list. At the top is this perfect pencil skirt in a color that I love (multiple colors really). Pencil skirts are classic! I have so many ideas on what to pair with this looker.

4 - Jonas. The little dude has loved his wooden airport made by the same company. It's not even a question that he would love this car set as well. We love that they come in their own box that all parts can be stored in.

{Sunday Photographs - 41}

2011-12-11T11:16:00.000-08:00

Every year these felt puppets from my childhood are a big hit at the Grover home.

This morning was no exception.

The kids acted out their version of the Nativity story complete with the angel telling the shepherds to have good manners,show respect and don't crazy when they see baby Jesus.

Sound advice in my opinion.

Jonas is home with me today while the others are at church. Waking up with a green goopy nose, a croupy cough and a fever is no fun...just ask Jonas.

Some hot honey and lemon tea, Vick's vapor rub and The Wiggles have helped.

Today we plan on watching this Christmas devotional (love DVR) while drinking hot cocoa from our Santa mugs.

While The Wiggles keep my son enamored I'm hoping a large portion editing will happen for my recent sessions. Tis the season for Christmas cards!

{Conversation}

2011-12-08T08:00:00.000-08:00

We are off to Disneyland today. It's "cold" here and not around any major holiday so even most of the locals won't be heading there (more than likely) which means no wait time in lines making it the "Happier Happiest Place on Earth".{Dole Whip by the Tiki room aka HEAVEN}

When planning this excursion Bret and our good friend Aaron (who's family is going with us) had to coordinate days off.

I came across their texted conversation and had to share:

Bret: "Have day off set for 8th".

Aaron: "Sounds good. I'll see you then".

Bret: "I will be wearing my pink suede fanny pack".

Aaron: "I'll wear my princess castle puffy jacket".

Bret: "If you're looking for me I will be on my electric scooter trying to take out ankles".

When you get these two guys together this is pretty much how all of their conversations go. Makes for an extra fun day at Disneyland.

And we're off...

{The Wall}

2011-12-07T09:20:00.000-08:00

While inside doing some sort of motherly/wife duty I could hear loud thumps. Locating where the sound came from, I opened the back door to find this:A smile immediately came to my face as I saw another of Bret's dreams coming to fruition.

Bret has always told me stories of how he would spend hours out in his backyard perfecting his soccer skills. Dribbling, kicking...you name it, he would practice for hours on end (on a side note I have to add his practicing paid off. He played in High School and in College, and most recently in a Thanksgiving soccer game where he made an awesome goal - think "bending it like Beckham". The man has skills I tell ya).Bret has had a desire to have a yard where he could play soccer with his kids since we started talking about having kids. Even when my kids were in utero he would rub my belly and tell them they were going to be soccer players.

While planning out our backyard here Bret couldn't suppress his excitement when he saw the perfect spot for his soccer wall. It's been a topic in the forefront of his mind since we laid the sod.

Finally, after waiting weeks for the grass to take hold and grow I guess he thought it was time to show the girls the wall.Thump! Thump! Thump!

Usually the noise would be a bit of an annoyance to me, but every time I heard that noise or the kids laughing with Bret while racing around the back yard it just made me smile knowing how happy Bret was.Here's to the Grover's Soccer Wall!

{Lights + sweets}

2011-12-06T09:10:00.000-08:00

We went and checked out the lights around the Mission Inn in Riverside last night. It was a sort of kick start to the many times to come where we drive around and ooh and ahh over Christmas lights.Jonas was in heaven and kept pointing at the lights and yelling "Woah COOOOOOL!".The kids loved all the Christmas decor, the horse drawn carriages that looked like Cinderella's pumpkin carriage, ice skating and the of course the Christmas music playing.Subtle reminders that we were still in California could be found...like palm trees decked out in lights instead of pine trees and oranges spotted on trees as well.The kids said the best part of the night was seeing the reindeer. They just couldn't believe it and had a hard time leaving the reindeer area.

Looked to me like Rudolph was bored and wanted some privacy.Bret and I said the best part of the night was Casey's Cupcakes.We like to watch the show Cupcake Wars on The Food Network? Casey's cupcakes won Cupcake wars and now we know why...their cupcakes are fantastic!His favorite was Luscious Lemon, mine was Caribbean Coconut, and the girls just loved all the frosting from the Marvelous Milk Chocolate and the Vivacious Vanilla.The girls were very happy their hands smelled like cupcakes for the rest of the night.It was a festive, fun, family night...nothing remarkable happened but you can be sure memories were made.

{Sunday Photographs - 40}

2011-12-04T09:08:00.000-08:00

These obviously weren't taken today but wanted to post our 2011 family pictures that were recently taken so they are sure to be included in this year's blog book.

A few of these are featured on our Christmas card. Sadly, when my computer crashed a few weeks back my address files were not able to be recovered fully and I lost a lot of the addresses I need for Christmas cards.

PLEASE email me (erica.grover@gmail.com) with your address so I can send a Christmas card to you. I just love seeing everyone's Christmas cards that come to us and enjoy just as much sending them out to friends and family.

{December 1st}

2011-12-01T09:13:00.001-08:00

It's December 1st! The official count down until Christmas has arrived and the Christmas season is in full swing at our house.

The tree has been trimmed. The elf, Red, made his appearance this morning.

The nativity sets are out, (baby Jesus has been carried around by Jonas all morning). The games and felt puppets to help learn the roles of each person/place/thing have been put out for the kids to use and ~~abuse~~ love.

The vintage Santa mugs have been pulled out of storage and ready to be filled with hot cocoa. The stockings have been hung.

Our 2011 Christmas mix has been compiled and many a dance party by the tree has been planned.

Christmas service lists have been made, supplies for homemade gifts have been found and most important, plans to teach, talk and learn about the true meaning of Christmas are ready to go.Happy December!

{Chocolate Roll}

2011-11-30T11:05:00.000-08:00

Growing up my fabulous grandma would make this delicious dessert when she would visit. It became a family favorite and a tradition to have.

Every time I make this I think of my Grandma and the wonderful memories associated with her.
Chocolate Roll

Ingredients:

*4 cups heavy whipping cream (I have two cartons showing because I was making two large rolls)
*1 tsp vanilla
*1 tsp peppermint extract (optional)
*1 cup confectioner's sugar (less/more to taste)
*2 tbsp cocoa powder
*1 package Famous Chocolate Wafer cookies (These cookies are often hard to find. I can find them locally at Albertson's or Stater Bros. or you can find them online)

Beat cream with mixer on high speed until stiff peaks form. Gently stir in vanilla, sugar and cocoa powder.

At this point if you want your chocolate roll to be peppermint add the extract to the whipping cream as well.Spread whipped cream on bottom of platter. Make sure it's thick enough so the wafer cookie can stand on its own.Spread whipped cream onto wafer cookie and place another cookie, making a sandwich.Place cookies on platter using the whipped cream that was spread on platter to anchor the cookies.Continue with a layer of cookie and a layer of whipped cream until all wafer cookies have been used.

I like to press the cookies closer together once placed and allow the cream to squeeze out of the sides. If you want your cookies with less cream in between the cookies put less whipped cream or press them togetherlike I do.Once all cookies have been placed place 3 large dollups of whipped cream on top of roll. Begin to spread the whipped cream until the log is completely covered with a nice thick layer of cream.Garnish with chocolate shavings or if you used the peppermint extract I like to garnish with a bit of crushed candy canes just before serving.Refrigerate at least 4 hours. Cut into diagonal slices to serve.

I didn't get a good picture of the roll sliced but it's important to cut the slices at a diagonal. Also, having the roll cold makes the dessert taste better in my opinion, so I'd recommend keeping it in the fridge until just before serving.

Enjoy!

{Sunday Photographs - 39}

2011-11-27T13:58:00.001-08:00

The last two days have pretty much been spent like the pictures above. Laying around the house when you're not in the bathroom.

I have had my fill of cleaning puke covered people, places and things for a while...hopefully a long while.

Getting Jonas to remain on the oilcloth mat I laid out on the carpet was effective 4 out of the 9 times he vomited so I'd call that a success. I spent a lot of time dreaming of a house covered with oilcloth carpet.

Mailee only complained once by saying "Mom all I've done all day is puke...lay down...puke lay down...I'm over today!". I'd be over it too if I was puking every 20 minutes!

I did manage to get the Christmas tree up and decorated before I started feeling sick late last night so this weekend wasn't totally a fail.

Looking at a beautiful Christmas tree while laying on a couch sick always makes you feel a little better.

Here's to tomorrow being a puke free and back to school day!Had to mention the two things that, along with the Christmas tree sparkle, brought a little happiness to this house.

1.Ginger Ale - an upset stomach's best friend. I felt like I needed to be serving a small bag of pretzels or peanuts along with their beverage and wearing a flight attendant's outfit.

2.Awesome friends. Shout out to Mese Ugapo who saw we were a house of Puke and brought some of our favorite juice to us. What kindness!

{No. 161}

2011-11-21T07:44:00.001-08:00

I've added these items as suggestions to the Mr. for Christmas gifts. For me, he couldn't go wrong if he got any of these...I love them all.

1.Beautiful blouse. I can't decide between the three color/print options. I'd love this print and color since I don't have a lot of this color in my wardrobe.

2.A comfy maxi skirt that can be worn around the home but still look good running errands as well. I live in my maxi skirts lately.

3.Every girl needs a little sparkle right?

4.Shoes that add a little metallic or color to an outfit...yes please.

5.I'm pretty sure Santa knows how much I love these two watches. If he's worried about surprising me it'll still be a surprise...I don't know which one he'll choose. I'm leaning towards the one on the right but both are amazing.

6.Have you guys seen the new customizable necklace Anthropologie is offering? What an awesome idea!

Happy Thanksgiving week!

{Sunday Photographs - 39}

2011-11-20T16:08:00.001-08:00

Sunday morning is the only morning we stay in our pajamas. We look forward to Sunday mornings...even though this morning it seems like one of the three littles woke up on the wrong side of the crib.

Thanksgiving is this week! I'm looking forward to spending the day with good friends, cooking and eating delicious food. I just love this time of year!

Happy Sunday!

{Bits}

2011-11-17T07:55:00.001-08:00

1.The other night I asked Bret to grill up some chops for dinner. He proceeded to put on his headlamp before grabbing the plate of herb marinated meat.

Headlamps come in handy when it's already dark outside at 5 p.m.

2.Being without my computer since Saturday was a challenge. I have this theory that it's the Anti-virus software companies that create viruses...you know, job security and all.

3.Currently reading The Happiness Project and enjoying it thoroughly. There are some gems in there that you can really chew on and digest. Read it. Love it.

4.Jonas looks super cute in his skinny jeans.

5.We went to Disneyland last week after our family pictures. We decided to watch the Christmas fireworks show (even though I really wanted to wait and do it closer to Christmas). I admit that watching the glow of the fireworks light up my kids "in awe" faces made me tear up a bit. We love that place.

6.I have overheard a few mom's say how excited they are to have their kids home for a whole week next week. I just keep my head down and push the stroller the other way, in case they ask me if I'm excited, because...well, I'm not. Judge me...it's cool.

7.It's really difficult for me not to buy something for myself during this time of year. I really try and only buy for others, but when my inbox is inundated with fantastic deals at some of my favorite stores, clicking that delete button is just so hard. Anyone else with me on this?

8.I find what people end up pinning on Pinterest so fascinating.

9.I bought two huge blocks of fresh mozzeralla. I can not wait to drizzle a few slices (or more) with some vinaigrette dressing and devour it. Mmmm...nom nom nom.

10.Mailee has now picked up on the fact that when she is the one saying the prayer everyone is quiet and only listens to her. She has now made her prayers her way of letting us know things.

"Please help me to get some more box tops and that mom won't forget to cut them out. Please help us recycle toilet paper rolls by making them into binoculars. Please help us to have some gum today after lunch even though I accidentally swallowed mine for two days now and Mom said no more. I want a kitty."

She's a smart one.

{11.11.11}

2011-11-11T12:08:00.000-08:00

What were we doing on 11.11.11 at 11:11 AM?Since the kids didn't have school today due to Veteran's day we were spending time together...just the way I like it.We were halfway through this movie. A very fun flick which resulted in making a "Thrill Points" list.One bowl of buttery popcorn and one bowl of kettle corn was being eaten.The morning was also spent making awards for family members (something the girls like to do often) and of course playing with planes and trains.Ella requested a photo with me and Mailee was happy to oblige. I am learning that I need to be in pictures with my kids and not just be the one taking them. Even though I was hoping the kids would sleep in since we had a late night at Disneyland, they got up at 6:15 (on the one day they can sleep in!) so the didn't start out as lazy as I hoped, but so far the day has been wonderfully lazy.

Bret finished up early from his morning surgeries and is home with us. More movies are going to be viewed and more books will be read.

The girls have already said they need at least 30 "Thrill Points" (Judy Moody) today and have informed me graham crackers dipped in hot cocoa, a mega dance party and a long bubble bath in my tub with glow sticks should get those 30 points.

Like I said, at 11:11 today I was with my family and will be for the entire day and that's the way I like it!

{Banner Tutorial}

2011-11-10T08:24:00.000-08:00

Talented Alison over at The English Pea let me know about her awesome Thanksgiving banner she has created and is offering for FREE.The project looks very simple and something you can have your kids help with, which means even I could pull this off (I'm not Martha that's for sure!).To view Allison's post with instructions and the link to download the printable {CLICK HERE}.

{Chores}

2011-11-08T09:50:00.000-08:00

The girls always make something handmade for each other for Christmas. This year, however, they have been asking to also buy a little something for their siblings.

We don't give our kids allowances. Bret and I decided long ago that doing chores around the house is something that you do because you live in the home and are part of the family and therefore need to contribute to keeping the family home in order.

If something comes up where the kids need some money to participate in something like going to a movie with friends or something small like that we determine if they've earned the activity and give them the money.

If the kids want a toy or new video game they have to do something above and beyond their regular chores around the house to earn the money and then save up.

Because the girls are well aware of this family rule they have been asking me what they can do around the house to earn some extra money.

I had them come up with a list of chores they are willing to do to earn the funds for Christmas presents. They presented me with the list pictured above.

After reading the list I noticed some of the things on the list were things they were expected to do anyway (fold pj's, make bed, organize play room). They weren't too happy when I pointed out they would have to come up with something else to replace those 3.

We brainstormed together and came up with age appropriate tasks they could do. Empty all the trashes for trash day, dust entertainment center, clean out craft drawers, weed front, sweep out garage, etc.

After hearing what she had to do to get the money Mailee said "Maybe we should just write Santa and tell him we want a robot to do our chores for us and make the robot give us the money because robots don't need toys".

They both thought it was a pretty good idea and promptly added it onto their Christmas wish list.

So far, they've earned $3 each...we'll see if they continue to work or hold out for their robot.

**I asked Ella why she drew the pictures by each chore. She said it was for Mailee so she knew what they were since she can't read big words. They make me smile.***

{No. 160}

2011-11-07T09:01:00.000-08:00

Sharing some of my favorite things that bring comfort and make me feel cozy is what today is all about.
1.Loving all the vibrant colors that the plaid flannel shirts are doing this season. Best quality and most variety of shirts goes to American Eagle. The length is perfect and with the wide variety of colors everyone should be able to find one that they love.

2.This color block scarf would add a pop of color and some warmth to your day. Favorite places to find scarves are Urban Outfitters, Target, Gap and Old Navy.

3.A beautiful necklace will up your outfit when wearing a thermal solid top or cable knit sweater. I have a thing for lockets and I love this one.

4.We use mugs daily around here...especially when the weather cools down. Hot cocoa and herbal teas always taste better in a good looking mug. I like to get a new mug every year for stocking stuffers and I think I found this years mug.

5.These by far are my favorite sweat pants. If you stop by my house after 8:00 p.m. you will usually find me wearing a pair of these. So comfortable and warm!

6.I love my slipper socks. I love them so much that I've put a hole in a couple of pair. This year I'm' thinking I'd like to give these moccasin slippers a try. They seem like they would last longer. I will miss sliding around our wood floors with my slipper socks though...

7.I just brought out our colorful quilts. Great for pictures, tent making, and taking naps. Some of our quilts have been made by people dear to us, others I have waited patiently until they went on mega sale and bought, but all of them must be colorful and cozy.

8.Music always makes the house cozy and comfy. When it's cold and overcast outside a little Bon Iver or Arcade Fire makes the mood inside mellow and calm.

9.Speaking of slipper socks...this looks like a cozy pair. Love the color.

***Visit my Pinterest boards to find links to today's post***

{Sunday Photographs- 38}

2011-11-06T18:36:00.000-08:00

It's cold. My blood has seriously thinned since moving out to California from Iowa. It's 34 degrees outside so maybe I have a good reason to feel cold.

As I type the sounds of hail coming down and the loud booms of thunder outside are accompanying the music coming from Just Dance 2 inside.

It's pure entertainment watching Bret dance with the girls. Bret has recieved 5 stars for the last 3 dances. Jonas has a pretty good sized bump on his head from running past Ella while she was dancing. Just Dance is no joke.

It was dark here at 4:45?! So begins the "black death" months where it's dark before Bret gets home from work. Ugh.

Since we didn't go on our Sunday walk the kids found amusement in burying each other in the large pile of clean clothes. Who knew that a hamper filled with clothes could provide such entertainment?! I just found another justifiable reason not to fold their clothes.

Anyone else out there watching Once Upon a Time? Such a great show. I look forward to it on Sunday's after we put the kids to bed. Look it up and watch it.

{A moment}

2011-11-04T10:06:00.001-07:00

It's raining and it's a flannel shirt wearing sort of day.We have at least two really large windows that Jonas could look out at the rain from a cozy couch. Instead, he comes to me, grunts "Up! Up!" until I hold him and let him watch the rain pour while in the comfort of my arms.

It was sweet and endearing for the first ten to fifteen minutes (quick take some pictures of this moment!)...but that little dude is heavy and my arms could only take so much. Jonas climbed all over my legs making his request to be picked back up over and over again, ignoring the attempts I made to show him he could stand on the couch and look out the window ("Oooh..look how cool the couch is buddy!"). So I caved and picked him back up.Look at his face. Seconds after he was picked up he looks as though he's still a little mad at me for even putting him down for any sort of respite from his 31 pounds of squishy flesh.

I am really enjoying my mornings with my Little Squish. It's just the two of us for the next four years and I'm trying to make the most of it. I better go and do some strength training on my arms....

***Don't forget daylight savings is Saturday. Turn your clocks BACK!!***

{Bits}

2011-11-02T09:03:00.001-07:00

1.I stopped by Trader Joes last night to pick up some more raw almonds, Wasabi mix and my favorite soap. My love for Trader Joes runs deep.

2.I'm fully convinced that a haircut can make one's day. Having someone else do your hair while you sit and read gossip magazines is so very enjoyable.

I must remember how awesome Shane's hands are and go back more often for my scalp massage. Hello HEAVEN!

3.These Santa Ana winds are doing nothing for my hair...or our new grass. It was quite comical seeing Bret outside this morning walking up and down our new grass barefoot, trying to feel which spots are getting dried out due to the strong winds blowing the water away from where it's supposed to hit. I might have laughed when the sprinklers turned on and hit Bret.

What is it with guys and their yards?

4.I can not believe it's November already! I feel like the Thanksgiving holiday doesn't get enough attention. Already stores and commercials are filling our heads with Christmas. I'm really trying to make sure my kids take this month and focus on our blessings and showing our gratitude for something daily.

5.We have family pictures next week. I really don't like seeing my not so photogenic self in pictures and so thinking about family pictures always brings on a bit of stress for me. I enjoy being the one taking the pictures so much more then being the one photographed.

That being said I would like to have more pictures of me and my kids together as well as Bret and I that aren't taken by my 7 year old. I suppose I will just grin and bear it.

6. While walking my kids into school this morning my maxi skirt blew right up exposing myself to all those around me (blast you Santa Ana winds!). Let's just say it was one of those rare moments when I wished I was wearing yoga pants like a lot of the other moms.

7.Do you pluck, wax or thread your eyebrows? What lasts longer in your opinion? I prefer to wax but am open to trying something else.

8.Last week I forgot to pick up the kids from school on Early Release Day! Wanna know what I was doing when I was supposed to be picking them up? I was watching a documentary on The Wiggles. Yes, that's right....The Wiggles.

{Carved}

2011-10-31T07:30:00.001-07:00

MaileeEllaErica - ElvisBret - Napoleon Dynamite The kids and I cleaned out the seeds and goop (Jonas just threw the stuff around the table and made gagging noises as he did it), then we poked holes for the designs and prepped for Bret. The kids were done by that point, which is usually the case, and so Bret and I cut their pumpkins.

By that time it was time for baths and bed so we sang a few Halloween songs and put them to bed.

Then it was time to get down with our pumpkin designs. Okay...who am I kidding? Bret carved our two pumpkins like he usually does every year. He's got those surgery skilled hands and it totally shows when he's carving. Good thing he really enjoys doing it.

I cheered him on and watched "So I Married an Axe Murderer"...just like I do every year. I don't want to break tradition and actually help carve.

Happy Halloween! Scroll down or click {HERE} to see our costumes for this year.

{Sunday Photographs - All dressed up}

2011-10-30T07:56:00.000-07:00

Technically these pictures were taken last night...oh well.We let the girls have 100% say in what their costumes were this year. They really got into playing the part of a witch...cackles and all.

I got the idea for the hobo costume from Pinterest (love that site). Jonas got lots of giggles and attention at the trunk-or-treat party.

We had Ella snap a few pictures of Bret and I that evening. I have to say our costumes were super easy and we still felt like we dressed up to the girls liking. Some day we know the kids will not think we're cool for dressing up but for now we are still earning cool parent points...plus it's fun.A few things I learned:
-facial hair is uncomfortable to wear(but I still like a man with a little scruff)
-I should wear my green eyeliner more often. I was reminded how much I like it when putting it on the girls.
-The green eye liner is true to the "24/7" claim...man that stuff is hard to get off!
-The amount of candy my kids already have is ridiculous. We are SO buying back their candy again this year!

Tonight we carve pumpkins and roast some seeds.

{Pumpkin Picking}

2011-10-28T19:29:00.000-07:00

Every year we try and make it to a pumpkin patch. This year I just didn't have time or the desire, to be quite honest, but the kids wanted to carve pumpkins.

Giving in, but not completely, Bret and I took the kids to a local "patch" here in town. The kids would get pumpkins to carve and that's all they cared about.

Off we went...First up, a traditional hay ride on the way to the patch. I really liked that you could buckle in Jonas. I was worried he'd jump right off the wagon.A haunted hay maze through the produce section.A picture with a scarecrow is always something you do at the patch right?I guess a lot of the locals found this particular patch just as charming as we did. Only one lonely (nasty) pumpkin could be found.One pumpkin just wouldn't do...so we headed over to another local patch.A wide array of gourds and corn greeted us, as well as a dude dressed up in an ill fitting Genie costume handing out coupons. What charm!The kids were pleased to see a small patch of pumpkins (cardboard box) and promptly chose three.Did I miss the $40 we would've spent just on the mediocre rides (4-6 tickets per child/per ride)? Nope. Did I miss the over priced pumpkins? Nope.I will admit that I did miss our pumpkin patch in Iowa, but I'm thinking I'd be completely okay with visiting the patches we did this year again.

Just call me "Pumpkin Patch Scrooge".

p.s. Can you spot the hot dog bun in some of the pictures? Mailee has a thing for them.

{Out back}

2011-10-27T10:10:00.000-07:00

For the last couple of weekends we've been busy (and by we I mean mostly Bret) prepping the yard for grass.

It's a process!

My brother who knows how to do sprinklers came down from Utah and helped do the sprinklers with Bret 2 weekends ago.

Measuring, menfolk thinking, multiple Home Depot trips, cutting, gluing/sealing, trenching and testing happened that weekend.A few before pics of the back yard. We are putting grass on one side and the whole back portion, however, leaving one side of the yard/side of the house open for gravel and raised garden boxes.Bret doesn't care how I landscape it as long as I keep his "perfect spot" clear of anything but grass. He keeps pointing out his perfect spot and how awesome it will be to have a wall for the kids (and us) to kick the soccer ball against.

We are a bit obsessed with soccer at our house.

I would really like any suggestions as to what sort of grasses to put along the slope at the back of the yard. I was thinking long wild grasses endemic to this area and succulents. I'd really like a succulent wall along the back wall as well.

What do you think?This weekend we (again by we I mean mostly Bret and some other guys)will be laying about 4000 square feet of sod! My contribution will be cheering the men on and finding some serrated knives at the local thrift store to cut the sod with.

I can't wait to finally have a back yard to send the kids out to play in! I can see many camp outs, parties, and memories happening out back.

Finished yard pictures forthcoming.

{No. 159 - GIVEAWAY}

2011-10-24T09:05:00.000-07:00

Today's MPM is devoted to a single product that I have fallen in love with. Have you heard of Half Tee's?

This amazing shirt was an anchor to a lot of my wardrobe. Worn with Maxi dresses, under cardigans, when you need a little more coverage, and truth be told got me through nursing without the added stress of a wardrobe malfunction, these amazing and versatile tops were an answer to my wardrobe wishes!

I just knew I had to share with everyone I could how wonderful these Tee's are!My favorite two tops are the Original and the tank.

Some might wonder if the top rides up. I have never had this happen. It fits snug against your body (think sports bra-like)...like a glove!

I know a lot of my readers love their layering tops or tanks but I'm telling you these are so much better! The quality is better, and with it being a half tee it's not as hot or makes your shirt cling to the bottom one...you know what I'm talking about.

I already know I'll be ordering a few of the other styles they have. Their 3/4 tee, boyfriend tee and long sleeve tee will be wonderful additions to my wardrobe.

For my readers Half Tee's has offered a 20% discount on any purchase made from 10/24-10/31. Now there is no excuse not to get some of these fabulous tees for yourself!

Enter the code ERICASBLOG at check out to recieve your discount.

As if a rocking discount wasn't enough Half Tee's is also offering one lucky reader any Half Tee of their choice!!

To enter this giveaway head on over to Half Tee's and check out their tops. Leave a comment on this post telling me how you would wear your Tee.

Winner will be posted Friday 10/28.

***Be sure and leave an email address with your comment!!***

{Sunday Photographs - 36}

2011-10-23T19:06:00.000-07:00

This morning before the sun was up my bed was filled with my little family.

Squished in together, hearing each other breathe, no words were spoken. It was bliss.

We watched the room get brighter as the sun greeted us, the kids waking up with the sun.

I was poked in the eye, kicked in the shin, loved on, drooled on, and even had Jonas attempt to pick my nose.

I loved it. It really was a wonderful way to start our Sunday.

{A delicious revision}

2011-10-21T07:49:00.000-07:00

One of my most popular posts on Pinterest of late has been the Snicker's salad recipe I posted a while back.

I made this a few weeks ago for a get together with friends and have found that by adding one more ingredient it hold everything together and adds just the right amount of creamy goodness to the whole dish.

The updated recipe calls for instant vanilla pudding to be added and boy does it make a difference!SNICKER SALAD
(tastes like a yummy carmel apple with nuts and chocolate)

Ingredients:
Cool whip
one package of instant vanilla pudding (small box)
one cup of milk
Snickers (frozen or cold - easier to chop)
green apples (tart, with a little sweet and lots of juicy)

1.Add instant pudding into mixing bowl and pour in 1 Cup cold milk. Mix well and let chill while chopping candy.

2.Chop Snickers bars into bite size pieces (I usually use about 2 bags of mini sickers or more - I like A LOT or about 10-15 king size). I have added Milky way bars and Rolos in with the Snickers before or you can omit the Snickers and just add Rolos and Milky Way bars if there is a peanut allergy.

3.Chop green apples into bite sized pieces (I use about 8-10)

4.Fold in one 8 ounce container of Cool Whip (or more if you think it needs more. I usually buy the 16 ounce container just in case) into the pudding.

5.Combine candy and apples in bowl with pudding mixture.

6. ENJOY!! Be sure and control yourself or you might just eat the whole bowl yourself!

{My Littles}

2011-10-19T09:01:00.000-07:00

It's tradition, despite how they turn out, to get school pictures. Unnatural background, cheesy lighting and all...school pictures are a must.

It's also tradition in our house to take pictures before the kids head out to school on school picture day...just to make sure at least one picture taken that day turns out.

While looking at these pictures I couldn't help but smile at each little one that I am so lucky to be a mom to.

They are unique and lovely. Oh how I love them so.Ella:
.currently reading Harry Potter and loves it
.enjoys playing soccer (3 cheers from her parents for this one!)
.very sensitive to others and tries her hardest at everything...even to a fault.
.loves music and dance Mailee:

.such an expressive firecracker!
.competitive
.loves soccer (yay!)
.loyal - totally someone you want in your corner and NOT against you!Of course we had to take a few snapshots of our little Squish who was my photo assistant. Ella took these pictures (notice they are pre-haircut...you should've seen the nice little mini mullet he had going on).

Jonas:
.Yes, he was made in California
.loves the beach
. says a lot of words now but "I love you" is still my favorite to hear
.makes great car and train noises

{Beach: How to}

2011-10-18T09:51:00.000-07:00

We hit up the beach this past weekend knowing that soon the beach trips will be fewer and farther between now that the cold weather should be coming soon.There are a few things that make our beach going experiences the best they can be:You must have shovels. Shovels provide hours of digging entertainment.Shovels also come in handy when you need to dig a "sand crib" for your wandering toddler. Usually the pit is wider and deeper than what is shown in the picture but I took the picture before it was completed.Good waves. Waves are beautiful to watch, soothing to hear and fun to play in, ride on and swim through.Shell hunting is a favorite past time for our little ones. Just be sure and bring a container that seals to keep them in or they go all over your car. Also, make sure to rinse them and let them sit in the sun for a few days so they don't smell fishy.Exploring nearby tide pools and rocks is a must.Be sure and spend a lot of time looking around in the tide pools...lots of ocean life can be spotted.Bringing the right food to munch on is key for a prime beach experience.

Fresh french bread, buttery croissants, chocolate bars (melted on the bread, the French way to eat it, is a favorite), cookies, strawberries, pineapple, chips, chilled water and soda...all these things are a must when at the beach.

If you have a lot of guys tagging along be sure and bring more then less since the menfolk tend to gather around the food and munch a lot.Of course the best thing to have with you at the beach to make it a wonderful time is friends and/or family.We love the beach. Wanna come next time?

{No. 158 - Reader request}

2011-10-17T07:16:00.000-07:00

Today's MPM is in response to an email I received from Amelia:

"I love Target and always find myself spending way too much when I go in to visit. Usually the money is spent on home items or clothes for my kids. I've never really looked too hard at the adult clothing they offer.

I know you've mentioned your love for Target before and thought I would email you to see what sort of things you have found that you love at Target. I really love your style and taste and would love it if you could show me some things you like there"

Amelia, I would love to show you some of my current favorites at one of my favorite stores.1.Have you seen the new dresses that were just released? They are so new they don't have images availible to enlarge and see details.

I looked for these dresses when I was there this past weekend and couldn't find them in stores yet either.

I caved and bought the yellow one (hello pockets!) online instead of waiting because I have a feeling these will sell out fast! Such a classic dress in beautiful bright colors. I just might have to buy the crab apple red one as well.

2.Just bought this tripod lamp for our front room. Love the way it looks. It's a light and decorative as well.

3.I love the shoes they have at Target, although not all the time. I think, for me, it's hit or miss most times, but when they are on...they are spot on.

These basic wedges would look so cute with your high waist skirts and flare jeans this season.

Add a little bit of sparkle and metallic tones to your outfit with these super cute and comfortable flats.

4.Two shirts I've recently purchased while there. The first, a plaid boyfriend style shirt provides comfort and style this Fall season. This shirt comes in a lot of different colors.

The navy printed shirt is oh so flattering. The ruching is placed in a great spot where it doesn't make you look like you're expecting and the design itself makes it look super put together. I could see this used for family pictures.

5.Love this gold chain bracelet. Simple but statement making as well.

6.My favorite home line at Target is the Dwell Studio line. From their kitchen accessories to their bedding to their baby clothing and now their books I love it all.

The colors and the pictures used in their board books will appeal to both baby and reader.

{Sunday Photographs - 35}

2011-10-16T19:30:00.000-07:00

Tonight on our evening walk I got bit by a mosquito four times! It's October and this is the first time I've been bitten this year. Hmmm....

Saw Footloose, liked the original better.

We were sad to say goodbye to my brother and sister-in-law this morning. They came down and helped lay sprinklers in our backyard (YAY!). It was so much fun getting to know Cari (sister-in-law) a bit more and spending time with both of them.

I'm looking forward to finishing up the editing for all the Iowa sessions I've been doing. (If you're one of my clients who have been notified their pictures are done and waiting for discs they are going out in the mail tomorrow. My apologies for getting them out later then expected...I sometimes forget that I have the whole wife and mother thing going on as well as church duties and board duties and set unrealistic deadlines for myself).

69 days until Christmas. What?!

{Mo}

2011-10-12T07:22:00.000-07:00

All of my kids have had a blanket/stuffed animal cozy since they were born. They've all grown very attached to this cozy and can't sleep without it nearby (Ella's slowly growing out of this).

Because we would travel a lot with the girls on a plane while in Iowa we bought an extra cozy for each of the girls in case the one they carried with them on the plane got lost.

It's been quite handy to have the extra one...especially when we have to wash them, or lose them which we have twice.

Jonas got a monkey. A monkey name Mo. He didn't get an extra one because I didn't want to spend $30 on another one when I wasn't sure he was attached.

After viewing his concern and true sadness when Mo was "taking a bath" with the other cozy's I'm guessing he's attached.At first he thought it was silly...Then, not so much.Then devastation.He kept pacing back and forth down the hallway for 20 minutes waiting for his Mo.It was a joyous, warm reunion, the scent of bounce dryer sheet in the air, later on that morning.

I've decided to stick to one Mo and if/when we lose him fork over the $30. Mo...don't ever get lost mmmkay?

{To the mountains we go}

2011-10-11T09:42:00.001-07:00

We went up to the mountains with our friends with glorious plans to do some raspberry picking and get THE BEST mini apple cider donuts in the world.

Upon reaching our destination we saw that everyone else in the surrounding area had the same thought that day.

Bummer.

The raspberry patches had been closed for the day and the line for the donuts was long. Of course no line was too long for those donuts.We did some apple cider sampling, tasted the different varieties of apples they offered and ate some Smokey Joe's BBQ (Bret really enjoyed the raspberry chipotle BBQ sauce).After eating a couple dozen of the mini donuts we headed to the local park to enjoy the fresh mountain air and get some wiggles out.While there Bret and Aaron (his friend since they were kids) got in touch with the child inside...We love living so close to the mountains and the beach. Last weekend we went to up the mountains, this weekend we're headed to the beach. We are lucky indeed.

{No. 157}

2011-10-10T09:34:00.000-07:00

1.This feminine blouse would work year round. Throw a blazer on over it or a cute mustard cardigan for the cooler months.

2.I love necklaces that make a statement or that can make an outfit out of a plain tee and pants. I've had my eye on this necklace for a while now and just might have to indulge and make the purchase.

3.I got some candy eyes and can't wait to make monster cupcakes or cookies with them. Should be a fun Family Home Evening.

4.The color of these shoes and the bow make this shoe a winner in my shoe loving book. Hopefully Santa knows to check my Pinterest account for gift ideas this year. (Check out the shoes, style and accessories board Santa).

5.Love this sweatshirt but not sure about the color for me. I think it would be pretty easy to add the lace details on a different color sweatshirt.

6.I can't tell you how much I've been loving my high-waisted flare jeans. I've got three pairs in different washes and love them. they are flattering, comfortable and no need to worry about showing too much when bending over. Love them!

I actually got my pairs from Old Navy. I bought one and was skeptical about the fit and quality but have been pleasantly surprised.

7.Super exited to be reading Frankenstein by Mary Shelley for book club this month. It's a classic and perfect reading for this month. The other two books included are also on my list to read this month.

**All items listed above can be found on my Pinterest boards**

{Sunday Photographs - 34}

2011-10-09T09:58:00.001-07:00

I had to take a picture of Jonas in his monster pajamas. He walks around the house growling at everyone and pointing to his monsters on his belly and feet. It's quite the struggle to get them off of him...he turns into a...monster.

I have decided my kids know how to give a good dirty look. With Bret and I as their parents it was a given.

I just realized all the Grover girls are wearing their hair pulled up. Could it be because we didn't have any desire to wash hair last night? Good thing side pony tails and messy buns are "cool" at the moment.

Today I'm making my yummy enchiladas and having friends, family and the missionaries over for dinner. I would say the key to good enchiladas is the tortillas and the sauce. These two ingredients must be high quality and the sauce not too salty.

Do you like green or red sauce? Or maybe you're a white sauce sort of person.

Here's to a wonderful Sunday!

{Bits}

2011-10-07T09:11:00.000-07:00

1.The pictures of flowers, hearts and family portraits have been temporarily replaced by all things creepy. The girls spent last night making paper puppets and put on an impromptu puppet show behind the couch for us about a Monster Mash party.

There were some entertaining ad-libs but for the most part I kinda found myself wishing I could be catching up on Survivor. Hey...it's the truth, sometimes I zone my kids out.

2.I have decided that figuring out what to have everyone wear for family pictures is hard. I want a good balance of colors, classics and a bit of trend. I can't tell you how many outfit boards I've put together in Photoshop.

3.Jonas is cutting his molars. When I give him string cheese he stuffs the whole thing in his mouth because it hurts to bite a chunk off. He then proceeds to spit out half chewed cheese all over the couch and himself. Why do I keep giving it to him?

4.I'm 30 and occasionally still get acne like I'm 15! What's up with that? A break out at least once a month (ahem) totally sucks rocks.

5.Yesterday it was 58, this weekend and early next week is supposed to be in the 90's. Really?! Although I want it to be Fall feeling around here, it means it will be nice weather for company coming next week. Beach trip!

6.Jonas seems to eat better if I turn on the song "Tokyo" by Imagine Dragons. He has good taste in music.

7.I purchased some nude pumps with a nude velvet bow on the heel. I wasn't sure if the color would blend too much into my skin tone (during the Winter months) but surprisingly they are as flattering as what the fashionista's out there are saying. Do you do nude?

8.Today is brown day at school. Ella wasn't sure if she had anything brown to wear but informed me that her hair and skin were brown so that totally counts. Glad to see she is claiming her "brown side" since before she would say her skin was gray (?).

9.Browsing Pinterest isn't as much fun when you're on a sugar fast. It seems like everyone is pinning some sort of S'mores treat or delicious dessert that I can't have.

I'm trying to tell myself that I can pretend by just looking at the delicious pictures (when you post about food it's all about the pictures) that I'm eating it right then, but so far it's not working too well.

10.Caught up on a new favorite Fall show, The New Girl. The one liners were hilarious. I love Zooey Deschanel.

Happy weekend!

{Hello October}

2011-10-06T09:02:00.000-07:00

It's currently 54 degrees outside...a true Fall feeling day here in Southern California. I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts - which means for one more day since the forecast is calling for upper 80's by Sunday.

It's a wonderful gift from Mother Nature, this cooler weather, which I've been longing for since my return from Iowa where it's beautiful and Fall feeling every day currently.

Yesterday, while the rain poured and the weather cooled, I took out the minimal Halloween decor and put it around the house.

My camera was getting cleaned so I whipped out my trusty cell phone and snapped a few shots of the first day of really Fall feeling weather.I took out the movies that we usually watch during this month. This is just a small sampling of what we watch all cozy together in blankets.

The other DVD's were all over the floor in the family room...a favorite past time of Jonas at the moment is pulling out all the DVD's, looking at the covers and littering the floor with them.I realize that in a few days I'll be back to wearing capri's and sandals but at the moment I am loving the beginning of October.

{Wordless Wednesday - 1 minute of expressions}

2011-10-05T08:09:00.000-07:00

{No. 156}

2011-10-03T09:09:00.001-07:00

1.I keep going back to this top and swooning. The details and the color are so pretty. I know the price is pretty high but this would be a classic piece that is high quality.

I'd rather build a wardrobe slowly with pieces that last long and aren't overly trendy then have a closet full of cheaply made clothes that unravel or fit weird after a few washes.

2.These brown pointy toe flats are so cute! I love the detail and the color. The rain ballet flats are cute and efficient.

3.I love these Instax film albums. Currently all my pictures taken with the Instax are being collected on a glass tray...not a good idea. These albums would make it way easier to look and enjoy the pictures.

4.I love a pretty book, and I love Vampires (a guilty pleasure of mine). These classic Anne Rice books are all together in this collection. I would love to have this beautifully bound book to enjoy looking at...and reading.

5.I stopped by Sephora last week and found a new favorite nail polish. "My Personal Serpent", a dark teal color is a great color for Fall. I'm a dark polish sort of girl so when Fall hits the purples, dark teals, and dark greens are what I want on my hands.

6.Not a fan of feather extensions for anyone over the age of 18, however, I do love feather earrings. Pretty and feminine they go with pretty much any outfit.

7.Pencil skirts will never go out of style. This take on the classic pencil is beautiful. Black lace...what's more feminine then lace (with a splash of sexy)?

8.We are starting to keep our eyes out for things our kids would use and like for Christmas. This wooden doctor's kit is something they would love and it will last. A bonus for me...it looks so much better than the primary colored plastic doctor kits out there!

**All items in this post can be found on my Pinterest boards {HERE}

{Sunday Photographs -33}

2011-10-02T16:50:00.000-07:00

Today was General Conference for our Church. It always turns out to be a great Sunday filled with coziness on the couch, crafting with the kids and conference talks that encourage and make you think.

There was also the occasional time out session and raised voices at the kids as well. You know...to balance it all out.

I think the favorite craft this year was decorating the acorns they collected during our mountain excursion yesterday. Who would've thought some markers and some nuts would provide so much entertainment?! We now have a whole acorn family.

Thank you Mother Nature.

{Bits}

2011-09-29T09:44:00.001-07:00

01.My kids are obsessed with Squinkies. Thanks to these miniature figurines I have been able to get things done around the house and work on pictures for long periods of time without having to play referee to their playing.

02.Need to sit down today and do the two week meal plan and shopping list. It's something I don't like to do but have found it saves A LOT of money on food. I'm in a bit of a meal rut so if you've got a good recipe to share pass it along!

03.My hair is at the point where it won't do anything. It's been months since a cut and it's time to go a little dark (hello Redken 3VR) for Fall. Maybe I'll have time to get my hair done soon...but I'm not holding my breath.

Do you go darker in the Fall/Winter and lighter in the Spring/Summer - in regards to hair color?

04.I have discovered Words With Friends and I love it. *disclaimer - just because I love it doesn't mean I'm good at it. Egrover14 is my name.

05.My DVR is filled to capacity with shows I need to catch up on. So many good shows on right now. Which ones are you watching?

06.It's supposed to be 89 degrees today. This isn't making me want to bake zucchini bread, make soups and wear jeans. I miss the Fall in Iowa!

07.Sometimes I look at my life and am baffled. I am 30, have three kids, a dog and a house. When did that happen?! I'm too immature to be where I am...what?!!

08.I need some book recommendations. Ready. Set. Go.

09.I am doing a month (or two)of no sugar again. It gets easier every time I do it because when I'm on my "break" I don't want sugar that much anymore ...too sweet.

I decided a milk chocolate and almond Magnum ice cream bar would be the last thing I ate before starting up again. Please tell me you know what I Magnum bar is? It's heaven on a stick, that's what it is.

10.Pandora is usually what helps get me through the day. What's your favorite station?

{Learning}

2011-09-28T09:02:00.001-07:00

I consider myself to be an intelligent person. Why then is it so difficult for me to explain to my 2nd grader what a "near double" is or "how to make ten" in a way that won't confuse her??!?

I know what the concept is that the teacher wants them to learn. I know the answer. I just don't know how to explain it to her correctly. Isn't that what teachers are for?

I also struggle to know exactly how the concept is being taught at school. What if I totally confuse my child by teaching her a completely different way then the teacher is teaching at school?

Anyone else out there with me on this? I am also looking for some good online sources for definitions and ways to explain concepts to elementary school age kids. HELP!

{Off to the land of corn}

2011-09-20T09:33:00.001-07:00

I'm off to Iowa to do a massive 4 days of photo sessions with clients.

Iowa will always hold a special place in our heart. The 5 years there, as poor students while Bret went to Veterinary school, are years we look back at fondly. We recall how creative we had to be with our very limited funds; we hold dear our friendships we made there with all the other poor medical school/law school/veterinary school families, as well as the wonderful church family we had there.

It was in Iowa where our relationship as a couple became so much stronger and our family learned to really rely on each other.

Yes, I am excited to go back, but I'm so very sad to be leaving my little family here in California.

They will be fine. The girls will be fine even if their hair isn't quite the way I like it. I'm sure they will all love the junk food they normally wouldn't get if I were here and the time they will spend with Bret and my brother Adam.

You can bet I've laid out their clothes for each day and typed up a daily schedule (my goodness we are a busy family!).

Iowa here I come!

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{Sunday Photographs - 32}

2011-09-18T20:19:00.001-07:00

Today I almost forgot to take our Sunday picture. Bret reminded me as we were cleaning up after dinner and getting ready to go for our Sunday evening walk.

Honestly, I had no desire to try and gather the kids and attempt to get a picture of Jonas sitting still...he's at that age where photos are difficult to do because he just won't sit still.

I had decided to just scrap the photo but knew I would be sad that I didn't do it late. So quickly we put the kids on the stairs and snapped a shot.

Jonas has tears in his eyes and his new straw sippy cup close by (he loves that thing). Mailee and Ella just want to get back to making shadow puppets on the wall and showing each other their shuffling (aka the running man and the charleston).

I took two pictures and then set them free. I like the ones where they are doing their own thing much better than the posed stair picture...but I will always take a natural captured photo over a posed one any day.

Look at Mr. Squish in the background trying to get a turn at pushing the doll and stroller before his sisters notice.

Check out the dancing divas who are totally into shuffling. This song is on at least three or four times a day at our house.

Is there anything cuter than watching a toddler dance? I think not.

{Words I live by}

2011-09-16T09:10:00.001-07:00

Many months ago the ever talented and witty Megan created a print that I fell in love with.

The print is of The Family: A Proclamation to the World, a statement that was published by the leaders of my Church.

The words in this proclamation are dear to my heart and what I use as a checklist to make sure I'm doing the things I need to be doing for myself, my family and my children.

I've been meaning to put it up for months now but just hadn't found a frame and finally once I did, I just didn't make time to spray paint the once black frame white...until Saturday.In a world where the family and family values are being pushed to the back burner of society, Bret and I have really felt like we need to teach our kids how important family relationships are.

We are attempting to memorize this Proclamation as a family, and though it's proven a difficult task with the kids, just the simple conversations we have as we explain what the words mean have been wonderful.

* Megan's talent for creating art can be seen, appreciated and purchased {HERE}. I've got my eye on a few other prints...

{Let the punishment fit the...child}

2011-09-13T09:06:00.000-07:00

In our house we are well aware that our children all have very different personalities. What affects one just doesn't have the same reaction from the other.

When it comes to discipline and giving out consequences for their choices we see this personality difference in full effect.

Ella had a few hard days over the weekend where she struggled with telling the truth. We'd talk to her about why it's good to always tell the truth even if you know the end result of telling the truth will probably still get you in trouble.

After many (many) small fibs over the course of two days and a couple bigger ones where she was given plenty of opportunity to tell the truth, she was then given a punishment that we knew would really hit home with her.Oh the drama that ensued when I told her to go get a piece of paper and a pencil. She didn't know what I was going to make her do but she knew it wasn't going to be fun.

In tears already because I told her how very disappointed I was in her (pull that phrase out with Miss Ella and the tears flow, with Mailee you get no reaction) she began to cry even harder as I told her to number the paper to 30 and told her she needed to write "I will not lie" thirty times.

Oh.the.drama.! You would've thought she was dying!!!Tears dripped on her paper as she cried the whole time while writing. When she was finished she threw her pencil down and buried herself into her bed.

Not the reaction of remorse we were looking for.So back to the paper and 15 more spaces were added for her to write and ponder why she was writing and why she should really be upset...not at us or the punishment, but in herself for making a bad choice.

Mailee just couldn't comprehend what the big deal was. She wanted to write like Ella too and kept asking us if she could.

It was one of those moments when it was clear to me that though we have the same expectations and guidelines and even rules for the most part for all our children, the way we handle situations when a child of ours needs to be given a punishment for their less than stellar choices depends on the child. What is highly effective on one may not always work for the other, and in our case this is blatantly clear.

It's been three days since the writing punishment and Ella still reminds me about it, making sure I am aware of how brutal that was for her.

I made a mental note of how effective the punishment was...you know...for next time.Side note: I can recall numerous occasions when my own parents used this writing punishment method on me.

One time in particular sticks out when I was being toxic to my sibling and to this day I have the scripture passage from the Bible still memorized (you would too if you had to write it 500 times!!!).

Ephesians 4:32 "And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."

Though I am hoping I don't have to make my children write this passage 500 times just as I did when I was little, I am pretty sure it will happen, but as long as they understand why they are doing it, that's all I care about.

{No. 155}

2011-09-12T09:07:00.001-07:00

1.Hi-rise super flare pants...love mine and you will love them too..promise!

2.blouses are all over right now. These two in the colors shown caught my the other day when I was shopping. They are so comfy and still look put together.

3.I've been pining over this watch for months now. I love the watch face shape and the rose gold. Bret knows (from all the less than subtle hints) that I'm hoping to see this under the Christmas tree.

4.Love this calendar. Simple and modern.

5.Just placed my order for these Herringbone tweed and gold Tom's. I love them already! The wedge...well you know me and my love for a good wedge. This pair would look super cute peaking out from your super flares.

6.Check out that skirt color and length! What I love most about this skirt is the long zipper in the back. WHAM!

7.Love the shapes and colors of this necklace. It's price is just right...too bad it's sold out at the moment.

8.If you've known me over the years you know I love me a good messy bun. I never thought I'd see the day when a messy bun born out of laziness or necessity would become super cool to sport. The girl pictured does a good tutorial on how to do this (in case for some reason you're not sure how to make your hair look messy...ha!)

9.Last but not least you know I love Shabby Apple dresses. They are some of my favorite dresses out there.

Their new Academia line is filled with preppy awesomness. My top three choices are in today's MPM post.

Shabby Apple is offering you lovely readers 15% of your purchase and FREE SHIPPING (on domestic orders). Don't let this steal of a deal pass you by. Click {HERE} or on the add to the top right to check out their new line and the rest of their adorable lines.

Discount code: IVY

For links to all the items in today's post check out my Pinterest account {HERE}.

{Sunday Photographs -31}

2011-09-11T15:58:00.001-07:00

{Minutes before heading to church}

Today, like most, my thoughts are filled with memories of the events that took place this day a decade ago.

We were newly weds, married for about 2 weeks, filled with hope of our newly established life and future and planning great things for us.

Little did we know that all our life plans and future plans would forever be affected due to the catastrophic events that took place on September 11, 2001.

I remember a lot of things that day but what I felt most urgently was to be near my family. To be surrounded by those that I loved.

Today, looking at the picture of my three Littles, I was overcome with feelings of love and that urgency to be near them and to love them.

When we explained to the girls about what this day means to our country it was touching to see their innocent faces distort in surprise and awe, their little minds not able to comprehend how someone could willingly hurt so many people. They expressed feelings of fear and wanted validation that they were safe.

I wonder what kind of world my Littles will contribute to? As we are still affected daily with what happened ten years ago, I can only hope that my children will know they are loved and share that love with others, making the world they live in better.

{IOWA}

2011-09-07T09:04:00.001-07:00

After many requests and emails this past Spring to come back out to Iowa for client sessions and not being able to at the time, I have decided to come out to Iowa for a weekend of sessions September 21-24.

I have 3 or 4 more session spaces open and would really like to have them booked to make my trip out to beautiful Iowa worth my time and travel.

If you'd like to book a session please contact me asap at feelingthephoto{at}gmail{dot}com.

{Sunday Photographs - 30}

2011-09-04T20:26:00.001-07:00

We feed our Church's missionaries and see them a lot. Since we've been married we've been really involved with the missionaries and have really enjoyed having them in our home.

This evening on our walk it was perfect. A cooler breeze decided to come along on the walk with us and made it so enjoyable.

The evenings are darkening earlier now. Soon it will be dark before Bret walks in from a long day at work. Those "dark days" are not my favorite but I am looking forward to cooler days.

Bret is on call and currently at the hospital caring for a turtle who's head is full of maggots, a dog in heart failure, a seizing cat and another turtle.

There is no school tomorrow (we love holidays) so the kids are still up, watching a movie with some popcorn.

I have declared it a no bath night...I'm the only one here that is happy with that. I'm okay with that.

{Farewell Summer}

2011-09-02T09:38:00.000-07:00

This is how we feel about Summer coming to an end (although here in Southern California the perfect months with awesome weather are just beginning...Hello September and October).Yes we will still be going to the beach and temperatures will be in the 90's for a bit longer but Fall football has started, Fall clothes are out in stores and I'M READY FOR FALL!

The evenings have started to cool down a bit so most of our time is spent outdoors. Last night was no exception.

Jonas felt like doing a little gutter fishing and dropping rocks into the sewer:The girls decided to hunt for evidence of fairies around the yard, stopping to pose for one quick picture:Bret got in some riding time on his new bike (one of his anniversary presents). I dig the colors, and luckily so does he. Thanks to all who gave me input and helped with bike info.I snapped pictures and then relaxed on the grass with my book.Oh how we have loved our Summer evenings. Oh how we have loved our Summer!

Fall has a lot to live up to. Bring it Fall!

{Ownership}

2011-09-01T07:45:00.001-07:00

We love our Outback. I am surprised how much I have come to love this car. It's spacious and drives well.

Did you know you can go onto Subaru's website and get a badge of ownership for your car for free? Such a smart marketing tool!

Thanks to Natalie for bringing it to our attention.

Now that I'm aware of the badges it seems that I see them everywhere! If you love your Subaru as much as we do head on over {HERE} and get your badge of ownership too.

How's that for an impersonal post?

To make it more personal I will tell you that this morning I yelled at both the girls during breakfast. These days they just bicker and intentionally try and make the other bugged. I guess I had enough this morning and let them know. Such a great way to start the day...some waffles and a dose of crazy mom. Guess I better get off this and try and salvage the morning before heading off to school...

{Little Ladybug}

2011-08-31T09:04:00.000-07:00

After 2 years of waiting (impatiently) and watching Ella play, Mailee started her first year of AYSO soccer.Even with the 100+ weather we had on Saturday, Mailee was all smiles the whole game and could be heard giggling as she passed by us on the sideline. She ended up with three goals, one for the other team and one for us. Go Mailee!Ella was such an awesome big sister cheering for her (extra loud and loooong) and giving her water and tips during quarters and half time.

To see both kids enjoy a sport that both Bret and I love and play is just so satisfying!

Go Ladybugs!!

I didn't take any pictures of Ella's game. It was mid day and bad lighting but I also had a grouchy teething boy who was hot and done with being at the soccer fields for the day on my hip.

I'll for sure post pictures of Miss Ella and of course her super rad Coaches (Bret and a good friend) soon.

{Let's Talk Lunch}

2011-08-30T09:33:00.000-07:00

I get a lot of emails asking for ideas for kids lunches. Now that most of us who have school going kids have started doing the whole pack-your-kids-lunch-every-single-day thing going on I thought I would answer what I do, give some ideas and hopefully get some awesome ideas from you!Here's my oh so organized drawer of lunch tools. The bento boxes that I have and some of the tools were being washed when I took this picture so it's even more disheveled than this if you can believe it!

I find that my kids will eat something new or eat better if the food looks colorful and fun. Putting food in animal shaped cups or mini silicone holders always gets a smile and the food eaten around here.Using cookie cutters to cut a PB&J or turkey and cheese sandwich instantly makes it so much better.

My kids love it when I cut their quesadillas into little people. There's just something about biting off the head that makes it taste better. I cut the excess parts of the quesadilla into smaller pieces and make it "grass" or "sand" the people can stand on.I like to search online via Pinterest and blogs that give me lunch ideas. Use words in your search like "bento lunches" and you'll find plenty of ideas and inspiration.

Some of the favorite school lunches my kids enjoy (I always include a yogurt, drink and fruit/veg):

*Quesadilla people with pizza sauce for dipping (pizza sauce in a cute little animal case)

*pot stickers and soy sauce (again it's all about the sauce containers :D)

*Tortellini on toothpicks (pictured above) and pizza sauce to dip

*PB&J or Turkey and Cheese cut with cookie cutters, grapes and yogurt to dip

*Fruit and cheese cube skewers (using toothpicks)

*Rice cakes and peanut butter

*Breakfast for lunch - waffle strips and syrup for dipping

*Hard boiled egg shaped into something fun using an egg mold.

*Popcorn, cheese sticks/cubes and apple slices

*Turkey and cream cheese pinwheels

Those are some that I can think of at the moment. I've been meaning to actually type up a list and have it handy in the kitchen but haven't gotten around to it yet.

I should mention that a lot of times what I make for them that morning has a lot to do with what we had for dinner the night before. If we had Tortellini then I know that's what will be in their lunchbox that day.

Also, if I'm making quesadillas for school going kids I make enough quesadillas for the kids at home as well at the same time so I don't have to worry about making them at lunch. I just reheat cut with cookie cutters or into strips and give ketchup or pizza sauce to dip.

On Fridays if Ella does all her homework on time and has read for 45 minutes every day she can get pizza (ice cream/frozen yogurt and milk as well) at school on Fridays. It gives me a day during the week where I don't have to worry about making a lunch and it's fun for her.

I really do try and keep it fun for the kids but simple for me. Just try and think out of the box and look for inspiration online or from other mom's you talk to.

Speaking of inspiration...I'd love to get some new and fresh ideas so please feel free to share yours with me!

{No. 154}

2011-08-29T09:57:00.001-07:00

It's all about comfy, cozy things. Things that I really enjoy and love.

1.A classic basic tee. Picked up a ton of these basic knit v-neck tees over the weekend. They are super soft and comfy. Pairing these with a long maxi skirt is my favorite thing to do.

2.IZZE's are always my drink of choice...aside from ice cold water. I can't decide which flavor I love the most, it just depends on the mood of my taste bud's that day.

3.Moccasins. So cute, so comfy and so Fall 2011.

4.A good book. I admit I love me some TEEN (yes that's right) fiction. They are easy and entertaining reads with a great dose of cheesy love story in them. I do however have a broad range of what I enjoy reading. I am loving all the US history books I've been reading lately as well. Just picked up this book over the weekend and it's so good!

5.A good movie. I love watching movies. This most recent movie we watched was Soul Surfer. It's been out for a while now, I know. Such a great movie. Very inspiring and one that my girls love.

6.Some good chocolate. My current chocolate addiction are Cadbury giant chocolate buttons. Mmmm...yes please! I usually have a handful of these while reading my book or watching a movie.

7.A good Television show. It's that time of the year where all the sub-par Summer shows are done but our Fall line up hasn't started yet. There are however, some good shows on at the moment. Anyone else watching The Great Food Truck Race? We watched it last year and really enjoyed it. This year's race is pretty entertaining as well.

Happy Monday!

{10}

2011-08-25T09:05:00.000-07:00

Today Bret and I celebrate our 10 year wedding anniversary! A decade together. All of my 20's spent with this man...the best way to spend my 20's without a doubt.A few pictures taken this morning to document today.This morning I was presented with a tin box (metal = ten years) tied in a bow with suturing string (yes you read that right - I loved that he wrapped with that!).

Inside was some of my favorite perfume and a red leather jewelry case. A letter was on top with instructions to read first.

I will only share an excerpt:

"The necklace I designed has ten circles, one for each year we have been together. They are circles because there is no beginning or end. I look at us and that is what I see.

One diamond for each shining star you have brought into my life and given me.

The black pearl is because you are the most precious pearl in my life. You're beautiful and perfect like this pearl."

What an amazing man I married!! I love him for putting true effort and thought into my gift and love the pendant he designed.

He's a keeper for sure!

{Tis the Season}

2011-08-24T08:57:00.000-07:00

For the next 3 months our house will be filled with Soccer. It's even taken over our dinner time with soccer scenarios being played out with the salt and pepper shaker and utensils.

As much as I love seeing my girls love a sport that both parents love and play, by the time November rolls around I'm so OVER soccer. Practices all week, games taking up our Saturdays (Bret's coaching so that adds more stuff)...you get the picture and I'm sure many of you can relate.

It's soccer season!

{The List}

2011-08-23T09:11:00.000-07:00

Remember our Summer list?

We were able to do most of what we had planned and on a lot of the ones that are marked off we did it multiple times (Drive-in, Beach, hiking, etc.).

Though we weren't able to fit in everything on that list the kids seemed to have enjoyed their Summer break and I really enjoyed having a visible list of ideas during the Summer months.

We are planning on making some homemade ice cream this week so technically we can mark that off as well. The other ones will just be some ideas we'll keep for Bret's days off this Fall.

Now that the first week of school is under our belt we're feeling a bit more on task with our new routine. Summer really is over and it's time to take down the list. *tear!*

I think our favorite thing to do this Summer was all the time we spent outdoors...going to the beach, hiking, swimming and bike riding.

I am sad Summer is over but hey...our Disneyland pass can be used again now...see there's always something good! Disneyland here we come!

{No. 153]

2011-08-22T09:43:00.001-07:00

To be added to my Fall wardrobe:

Row 1: A shirt with femine details, a bold hued print, subtle printed tee (Lucca couture - piperlime, Anthropologie, Gap)

Row 2: A classic heel with a twist, flats, riding boots (Anthropologie, Miz Mooz, Miz Mooz)

Row 3: Long maxi skirts are what I plan to live in (when I'm not wearing my super flares) this Fall. A classic shaped pencil skirt in a bold color would be great to have as well. (Express, Anthropologie, Old Navy)

Row 4: Bangles can pull together an outfit and make it look like you put some effort into what you're wearing. (Ruche, Accessorize, Anthropologie)

All of these items can be found with links included on my Pinterest boards. Click {HERE} to go to my boards.

{Sunday Photographs - 29}

2011-08-21T20:30:00.001-07:00

+Watching Bret and Ella play Harry Potter during nap time, while I played Plants vs Zombies. Not my ideal Sunday past time but sometimes a little gaming is needed.

+A post naptime game of Dora on the Wii was requested by the littles.

+Had the missionaries over for dinner. We see the missionaries once a week and feed them at least twice a month. We love the missionaries.

+Our evening walk with friends was pleasant, as it always is. I really enjoy our Sunday walks.

+Listening to the kids interact with Bret while he does baths. Bret and I both agree that for some reason the kids listen better to me (they are more afraid of me then they are of Bret, and I'm okay with that).

+As I type I'm enjoying a tall glass of ice cold water and a handful of raw almonds. Yum. Bret is having a root beer float.

+After I post this I will look at our week and see what needs to be done, signed, returned, purchased, cleaned, read, etc. I'm a list maker...yes...I sure am.

{Mailee's 5th}

2011-08-18T09:43:00.000-07:00

We managed to fit in a simple birthday party for Mailee with her friends. She wanted them to all sleepover but our rule is no sleepover's until you're 10.

I convinced Mailee that a pretend slumber party would be just as fun. Happy that she agreed to the pretend sleepover suggestion, she laid out in great detail how she wanted the party to go.Guests arrived in pajamas and games were played. Musical pillows (musical chairs), pillow fights, balloon games, Twister, and toilet paper mummy (it was too hot to go and toilet paper our house outside so we opted to toilet paper each other).The bowl of prizes, hand picked by Mailee, was empty by the end of the party.Nails were painted. Let me tell you how crazy it got painting nails in shifts and making sure they were dry. We had a group playing games and a group having their nails painted. Bret and I make a good tag team.For dinner the girls made mini pizzas. Bret and I laughed at how enamored the girls were with the mini pepperoni's. They kept proclaiming how cute they were over and over.A doughnut cake with sparklers was a must for sleepover themed party. Yummy for them, easy for me.Mailee said it was her best day ever - a phrase that is used pretty often around here, but I'll take it.I am very glad we chose to do simple parties this year for the girls. I might just have to continue on with this tradition...

{Off They Go}

2011-08-17T07:55:00.000-07:00

The first day of school went off without a hitch. The girls fell in love with school just as I hoped and, though I was busy, I was able to accomplish quite a lot with only Jonas in tow.

The front door was blasted with morning sun so we opted for some back door first day of school pictures.

A few bits of conversation going on this morning:

Ella: "Mailee the first little bit you will know everything because you're such a smarty but soon you'll be learning new things and your brain will grow"

Mailee: "Ella, I'll do this to you (makes the "I Love You" sign) and if you see me you do it back okay?

Mailee: "Mom will you be okay with just Jonas at home? I will be back super fast everyday okay?"

It took a lot of restrain on my part, but I let both girls choose what they wanted to wear for their first day.

Mailee ignored the less than subtle suggestions by me to wear something else out of her new clothes pile, or at least change her shoes to something that goes with her dress better, but she wouldn't budge. A side ponytail and two barrettes that color coordinated with her shoes were also a must.

Ella couldn't decide between a skirt and her flamingo-wearing-high-tops shirt or her giraffe shirt with a glitter bow tie and some capris. She opted for the giraffe and informed me so felt FABULOUS.Ella to Mailee while getting ready for first day of school:

Ella: "Mailee you want to look cute but still be comfortable and never let the boys see your underwear".

Mailee: "I know! I'm a Rockstar!"

After recording a first day of school interview with each, we headed off to school.On the way out to the car:

Ella: "Let's do this!!!"
Mailee: "Totally!"

Ella was excited to have her best friend Grace in her class this year.Mailee was so ready to start school. She's been waiting for this day for two years now. She was so brave and so confident, and even saw a few kids in Kindergarten she knew already.I don't know why I worried for her...my spitfire child. Her confidence astounded me.

There was however a moment that I am so glad I was able to capture. My little Mailee did get a bit hesitant for a moment and looked back, gifting me with her signature unsure look.

The insecurity was but a moment before she composed herself again and spoke the National Anthem quite loud and proud.I wasn't sad to send them off again. They love learning and school and that is what we want for them.

I suppose it's time to start making a list of things to do with my little man each day. It's just me and him for the next four years...

{Courage!}

2011-08-15T21:43:00.001-07:00

Today I send my little chicks off to their first day of school (pictures will be posted tomorrow).

I feel somewhat robbed that our Summer was so short. I am almost positive my school year's always started later in the month of August...am I wrong?

Last night we enjoyed our traditional Back to School breakfast dinner. It has become a favorite tradition for the kids. Their favorite sugar cereal (a special treat), donuts, chocolate milk and orange juice and a fruit salad to round it out = breakfast of champions.Courage. It's the word for our school year this year (other words we've used in the past have been Thrive and Remember).

It takes me months of thinking and observing my little ones to finally decide on a word. Lots of thought about how the word can be applied to each school going child happens.

Courage to stand up for what you believe in. Courage to know you are smart. Courage away from home. Courage to do the right thing even if others around you aren't. Courage! Courage! Courage!

We'll keep the COURAGE banner up for the first week as a reminder for the girls. We even have a short, simple cheer we do before everyone leaves in the morning. The kids love it and it's my hope that repeating it everyday will help them remember what we talked about throughout their day.

Here's to a new school year...and here's to COURAGE!

Do you have a word that your family is focusing on?

{No. 152}

2011-08-15T08:00:00.000-07:00

1.This shirt is so feminine and pretty. I love it.

2.How do you feel about high waist jeans/pants? I think as long as they don't give you "long butt" then they are actually quite flattering. I'm so digging this pair at the moment.

3.I love love love my new growth chart. I've actually had it for a few months now but keep forgetting to write about it. The kids like to measure themselves often and I love the look of this chart.

4.Turquoise has always been a favorite of mine. This huge chunk of turquoise would be such a statement piece to any outfit.

5.Loving these stacked heels for Fall. Preppy and in pretty hues.

6.August means peaches! I could eat peaches and cream or peaches and ice cream every day. I love this time of year. I've also been into cucumber salads lately. Just add sour cream, dill, a little lemon juice, salt and pepper and you've got a delicious salad.

7.I picked up three skirts at Old Navy the other day. A long and comfy maxi skirt (sold out online), a shorter maxi skirt and this little floral beauty. I've pretty much been wearing a skirt every other day all Summer and plan on doing the same in early Fall (when I'm not wearing my high waist jeans or super flares!).

8.I am in desperate need of a light over our dining table. I can't seem to decide on what I want but think this one has moved up to the top of my list. What do you think? A bit if modern/industrial/traditional?

No time for links for all this stuff. If you want a link leave a comment and when I have time I'll leave the links in the comments or come back and add them. We are off to the beach and enjoying the last day of Summer before school starts tomorrow.

Happy Monday!

{Sunday Photographs - 28}

2011-08-14T20:57:00.001-07:00

It's the last Sunday of Summer.

We spent the evening with awesome friends, eating delicious Peruvian food and then tried to walk some of that food off with an evening walk. It was a perfect way to spend Sunday.

Tomorrow we will head to the beach for one last beach trip before school starts (there will be visits to the beach after school starts as well).

I'm looking forward to our Back-to-School dinner and know the word I chose for this year is one that completely applies to our family, particularly the girls who are going to school.

We'll be covered in sand and sun-kissed but the dinner will go on!

Check back Tuesday for what our family word is for this upcoming school year!

{Family Time}

2011-08-11T07:57:00.000-07:00

Brace yourself for a plethora of pictures in this post.

Our family reunion was fun, relaxing and often times bordering a little crazy - but that was to be expected with all the little ones running around.

I have 6 siblings and it's been a long time that all of us have been together in one place (missions, living in different states, etc. have made it difficult to all be there). There was only a two day period of time out of the 5 days when we all were there. Even though the time was short, it was fun having all of my siblings there. The ones that had to leave early were missed for sure!What's a family reunion without a cheesy shirt?A lot of things to celebrate. My parents celebrated their 35th wedding anniversary, my brother and sister-in-law announced they were having a baby and my littlest brother will be graduating from BYU tomorrow.A quick family meeting (quick is always good with kids attention spans) where Dad shared answers to the family survey and gave us some thoughts.Mom shared a story from her childhood in Tahiti where she was too poor to have a doll so she made one out of the plants in her backyard and cans from the trash. It really made my kids more aware of all that they have.

The kids were so into the story and the doll making...I just know I'll be asked to make dolls out of plants and trash for quite a while now.Someone always had an iPad. I admit that I really enjoyed playing a little Plants vs. Zombies myself.My mom is an amazing cook. You never need to worry about having good food when you're at a Welsh family gathering. Smoked Gouda and chicken paninis, pork enchiladas with creamy tomatillo dressing, and her specialty smoothies (to name a few) all were devoured.

The snack of choice was fresh mozerella slices, cucumbers, tomatoes, and fresh basil with a generous drizzle (or two) of her homemade vinaigrette dressing. YUM!Mom waving bye to the grandkids before going on a date. Taking advantage of all the babysitters available a lot of us went out on dates or enjoyed time as couples.Some of us took a walk around the St. George temple after attending church on Sunday.Cousins Brother #3 Sean and wife Cari.Brother #1 Jim with daughter.Swimming for 5-6 hours a day was the norm.Kids in goggles never get old! I would crack up every time my kids would look at me with their goggles on.My brother's family and ours decided to take a hike up Snow Canyon. We love the red rock all around.Hiking in swimsuits so we could jump back into the pool ASAP.The reunion was wonderful. Can't wait to do it again next year.

{Home}

2011-08-10T08:13:00.001-07:00

We just got back late last night from our family reunion. I'll post more about the reunion tomorrow.

Lots of unpacking will be done today while the kids just lounge around and enjoy being in our own space again. It always feels so good to be home.

As I have been unpacking this morning I've been adding things to my list that I want to do with the family before school starts NEXT WEEK!!

We have Mailee's birthday party, the beach and our back to school dinner that I need to plan for this weekend.

Does anyone else feel like they blinked and Summer was over?!

{To watch}

2011-08-04T07:37:00.000-07:00

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Have you been watching Shark Week? Our DVR is full of shark shows. Bret and I like to do our commentary in an Australian accent - "Woah, that's a rally bag Marko Shak!" - while watching the shows.

We dig Shark Week.

Something else we are planning to watch is the new Winnie the Pooh flick. I'm not a huge fan of Pooh paraphernalia (he,he)in general but I did grow up on the classic movies of this honey loving bear and find my kids taking to him as well, especially Jonas. Whenever he sees any previews of the movie he freezes, eyes glued to the screen.

Zooey Dechanel is on the soundtrack and who doesn't love her? She's a style and hair icon for me personally and I love all the movies she's been in.

Winnie the Pooh has nothing on this chubby little bear!

Looks like someone needs some honey!

{Preparations}

2011-08-03T11:38:00.000-07:00

I always find it funny that whenever we are going on a trip I make a list and on that list I always have things to ensure that when we get back home, we return to a clean house.

Why is that funny? Oh because while I'm busy making preparations and gathering, washing, and packing my kids are given free reign to the house making the house in more disarray than it was before my preparations began. I leave the main floor cleaning to be done just before we leave for this reason.

The one item on that list that I'm looking forward to the least...nails. I don't like trimming my kids nails. They move and I freak out...flashbacks of when they were little and clipping the finger tip (on ALL THREE) come to mind, but I suppose I need to suck it up and just do it because I'm over the scratches all over my arms and face.

Any tips on how to make the kids sit still while nail trimming?

Back to packing, cleaning and making messes....

{Her day}

2011-08-02T07:10:00.001-07:00

+Waffles on the "You Are Special" plate, with a glittery birthday banner behind.
+Deciding on the perfect shade of purple frosting.
+Licking the beaters.
+Adding the decorative boarders (with a bit of my help) and the dots.
+Eating more frosting+Lunch of Mailee's choice - turkey sandwiches cut out in little people shapes, grapes, gogurt and Veggie Straws.
+A movie date with Ella and Mom to see Smurfs. Ella paid for Mailee's birthday present.
+Phone calls from family and friends
+No nap+Dinner at Ruby's Diner - Mai's choice and favorite place to eat.
+Birthday money counted and recounted and almost lost.
+Birthday song, candles and sparkler
+Birthday cake devoured (a piece saved for breakfast this morning)+Birthday interview conducted and recorded.
+Last and best present given
+Family bike ride
+A birthday blessing administered by Bret.
+One happy birthday girl.

{Smiley Mailee is 5}

2011-08-01T07:47:00.001-07:00

This little firecracker is 5 years old today.

She woke up this morning and jumped out of bed and showed me that she was taller, that her arms were longer and that she just felt old.

When talking to her Uncle Michael on the phone he asked her what she wanted for her birthday. She quickly replied she'd like some Hello Kitty or Disney Squinkies - miniature figurines??!! of course she's obsessed! She informed Mike that he could get her more than just one set since they aren't expensive...that's my girl!

I asked Mailee what's so cool about being five. She held up her right hand and pointed to all her fingers and explained to me that every.single.finger. on her hand can now be used to say how old she is. She's also pretty convinced that the Tooth Fairy can make a visit since once you turn five your teeth magically loosen.

She loves to accessorize (wonder where she got that from). Notice in the pictures she's wearing an old necklace of mine, a bracelet she made, glittery nails and a ballerina bun (her favorite style).

I sure do love her loud and spunky personality. She's silly and caring and emotional.

Love you more than all the stars Miss Mai!